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post #1 of 15
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So I've read DR.. but it's back at the library and maybe I missed something about what to do if step 2 takes longer than X.

Nutshell:

Car Loan - $3k
Student Loan - $23k
Mortgage - $105k

Savings - $4k

Income - $40k

Obviously what we do is take $3k out of savings and pay of the car. Great! But then I loosely calculated how long it would take for us to pay off the student loan if we threw the entire car payment at it. 3 years and 7 months.

Now, 3 years and 7 months is WAY better than the 13 years we actually have left on the loan. I'm not complaining.

BUT... 3 years and 7 months is about twice what DR estimates this step should take. Argh. And I'm honestly a little uncomfortable going so long with only $1k between us and Murphy, as he puts it.

I do know that we're supposed to put every cent into it, go crazy, so it's supposed to be more than our car payment. And that's fine, but I figured even adding a full $200 EXTRA a month on top of that only shaves I think 3 months off. $200 extra a month is a lot.

I don't have the budget in front of me but suffice it to say that we have no lattes. We have no cable TV or even Netflix (all our TV entertainment is borrowing videos from the library - free), we pay $11/month for an incoming-only VOIP line, and $7/month for one cell phone for emergencies only. We have only 1 car and drive it so little that we have the low mileage discount on our insurance. Our clothing budget is $20/year, exclusively for DD to cover whatever her grandmothers's gifts don't cover (last year it was 1 pack of socks that she needed). DH shaves his head, I go 2 years between haircuts, and DH cuts DD's bangs. You get the idea.

We have valued being debt-free all along but "things happened.' Our mortgage was $85k but we had a major problem and faced remortgaging to fix it or to move (at a loss as well, no doubt). I'm not saying we couldn't have made any other choice, but our plan was to have an $85k mortgage which is obviously a bit more managable than the $110k that we ended up with (now $105k left). Same with the car, we drove one car until it bit the dust, bought a fairly cheap used car and paid off the note in 2 years instead of 4. Which was good for us, because 1 year after we paid off the note the car completely died. We planned to drive it for 10 years or so, it didn't work out that way. We faced a choice between buying a complete POS for $2k or researching the heck out of a somewhat nicer car that's supposed to last 100 years. We probably should have stuck with the POS but maybe you can understand why we didn't - our previous cheap car was NOT a good deal at all. We ended up with a 3 year old Vibe - chosen entirely for reliability, not because we care what our car looks like or anything. If we pay it off tomorrow, we'll have paid the note 1.5 years early. (We also paid off a smaller no interest student loan early - call us crazy but it was a loan we could get rid of so we did).

So anyway, that's how we've come to expand our budget to the point where, even though there are NO lattes, there's not a lot of room to maneuver. We're talking about how to maybe make extra income, and I'd be willing to go crazy doing it and never see DH and DD and spend all day and all night working, but honestly only for about 18 months. Call me selfish or not, that's my honest assessment of what I feel I can do. I would seriously resent spending 3 or 4 years like that. And it just seems like the numbers don't move much no matter how much I figure more and more extra hypothetical payments.

Sorry for the huge novel, I really do tend to write extremely long posts. I just feel like if I leave something out people will just say "oh, cut the lattes" or "oh, shame on you for clearly living beyond your means" and so on. The thing is, before we take the plunge and pay off the car with our savings, we want to be 110% committed. And I am in theory that committed but really deflated when I see how long it will take, like twice as long as DR estimates even for families that have that much debt in high interest credit cards alone (and we have none of that, thank goodness). The lifestyle of no lattes I can maintain pretty much forever, but we're already there and that doesn't help. It's the lifestyle of workworkwork all the time, never see DH because he's off fixing computers or because I'm holed up writing PHP code, and DD just having to put her most formative years of her life on hold being shuffled between us while the other is off on a job for years, I really just balk at that, selfish or not, I do.
post #2 of 15
For what it's worth. I put Student loans in the step with mortgage. I would spend forever in BS2 if they were added.
post #3 of 15
What is your interest rate on your student loan? What is the interest rate you could be EARNING if you were investing that car payment? Always pay yourself first. After you pay off the car, take that car payment and put it in savings/investments (I would suggest investments, as savings is not going to multiply as fast). You still have $1000 if Murphy comes along, and you'll have your proof of assets if you Murphy wants more than that.

If you would earn more than you are paying on your student loan, SAVE THE MONEY AND INVEST. If you are paying more in interest on that loan than you could save, pay off the student loan.

Student loans and mortgages are usually the two lowest interest rates a person will ever pay. As you only have three debts, you are doing really well. A book is a guide, not a law. You are doing well. Look at your interest rates, and let us know what they are.
post #4 of 15
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For what it's worth. I put Student loans in the step with mortgage. I would spend forever in BS2 if they were added.
Me too. Student loans are their own breed of monster. We consider it an "invested debt" like our house. It is def. not in the same category as cc, car loans, etc. But, I would try to pay it off early. After the car is paid off, I would put that payment towards the student loan (since you shouldn't have to buy a car for awhile--otherwise, I might even put half towards the "next" car and half towards the student loan) That might not be so DRish, but I am a newbie with that. And, we have a ton of student loans so I don't plan on considering it part of step 2.

Amy
post #5 of 15
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For what it's worth. I put Student loans in the step with mortgage. I would spend forever in BS2 if they were added.
Yeah... true. But we'll spend forever in BS5 then, right! I guess it's a consideration, but honestly this is the step that is most motivating for us. We want it behind us.

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Originally Posted by DirtRoadMama View Post
What is your interest rate on your student loan? What is the interest rate you could be EARNING if you were investing that car payment? Always pay yourself first. After you pay off the car, take that car payment and put it in savings/investments (I would suggest investments, as savings is not going to multiply as fast). You still have $1000 if Murphy comes along, and you'll have your proof of assets if you Murphy wants more than that.

If you would earn more than you are paying on your student loan, SAVE THE MONEY AND INVEST. If you are paying more in interest on that loan than you could save, pay off the student loan.

Student loans and mortgages are usually the two lowest interest rates a person will ever pay. As you only have three debts, you are doing really well. A book is a guide, not a law. You are doing well. Look at your interest rates, and let us know what they are.
Let's just say I want to do the Dave Ramsey plan, it's fine to disagree with it but that's the premise of what I'm doing. I won't do a point by point response, it's really ok that it's not your style, but getting out of debt asap is the point of view I'm coming from and his plan really does fit my financial values very well.
post #6 of 15
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Me too. Student loans are their own breed of monster. We consider it an "invested debt" like our house. It is def. not in the same category as cc, car loans, etc. But, I would try to pay it off early. After the car is paid off, I would put that payment towards the student loan (since you shouldn't have to buy a car for awhile--otherwise, I might even put half towards the "next" car and half towards the student loan) That might not be so DRish, but I am a newbie with that. And, we have a ton of student loans so I don't plan on considering it part of step 2.

Amy
Just curious, what would be considered a "ton" of student loans? Do we have a ton? While I think we have "way too much" I figured it wasn't a ton, since DH and I both went to a state college.

And you've touched upon something I worry about a bit... the last car lasted only 3 years. It died, as in they could not fix it for less than 10 times the value of the car. We didn't just trade up, is what I'm saying. We want this car to run until it's a pile of rust but we have found out the hard way that we can't count on that. However, I think if our current car dies, we'll buy a POS that is around $2k, maybe less if we can. We'll not expect more than a year or two from it of course. Hopefully if that happens we could tap the EF and come up with the rest quickly so we can pay cash, then refund the EF and keep on going. That doesn't seem like a horrible plan to me. We don't depend on the car every day, so if the car died we could live a week or two (at least in warm weather) without a car while we sorted it out.
post #7 of 15
Oops, sorry! I didn't notice the part about a particular method you wanted to try.
post #8 of 15
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Originally Posted by DirtRoadMama View Post
Oops, sorry! I didn't notice the part about a particular method you wanted to try.
No problem! I actually just wrote "DR" in my title, which would mean almost nothing to anyone who wasn't familiar with it. It just seems that around here a lot of folks subscribe to the Dave Ramsey method so it was sort of an assumption that everyone was on the same page.
post #9 of 15
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Just curious, what would be considered a "ton" of student loans? Do we have a ton? While I think we have "way too much" I figured it wasn't a ton, since DH and I both went to a state college.
Well, we started with $75,000. (we now owe $40K) Only a small portion was from undergraduate. But, then, we each had a masters' program. I did mine while dh was still working on his undergrad. We held jobs, but that didn't come close to what we needed for tuition. I did save us money though by completing a two year master's program in 4 quarters. So, undergrad + my grad totalled $25K. DH wanted to become an OT--got into one school (Tufts). Boston isn't cheap, neither is that tuition. I was a librarian but you don't get paid much to start with that job. So, $50K for his grad program.

My BIL is over 100K for dental program, and another has about that for chiropractor school. So, 23K really just doesn't seem that bad (not that I would want it hanging around).

Amy
post #10 of 15
I personally have my student loans in the same catwegory as mortgage, and in fact, they are the last debt I plan to pay, since the interest is so very low on them. We'll even pay off the mortgage first.
post #11 of 15
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OP back - when I sat down at my desk this morning, my husband had left a printout confirming he paid off the car!!! Yippee!!!!!! Good news, my gut reaction was YES!!!!! - as opposed to "uh-oh, what did we just do??"

DR has a little section on how women love the emergency fund and get glandular spasms (or something) if it gets messed with, but in our house it's DH who really had to swallow the lump in his throat to clean out savings to pay off that debt. I really and truly did not push him into it though, I told him that we make our own choices and just because DR beats his drum about getting the EF down to $1k for BS2 doesn't mean we have to. I asked him to think about what size EF he would be comfortable with. I also told him that while I was comfortable going down to $1k myself to do this plan, I was ONLY comfortable if we were 110% onboard; I don't want to clean out the EF and do a half-ass job of working out of debt and find ourselves with our pants down at some point in the future. So this morning I got my answer: he's 110% onboard.

So now we have $350 a month freed up iin the budget as well as anything else we can squeeze out of ourselves. But honestly I'm still undecided about whether we are already finished with BS2 or if we're looking at a long haul of some years to pay off the student loan. Back to that section where DR talks about women and emergency funds, he says that the fully funded emergency fund is usually the step that excites the ladies the most. Don't get me wrong, having that would be super duper awesome and obviously further down the road than BS2 and logically the superior place to be, but all the same I am most excited about just plain being out of debt. Illogical or not, I hate being in debt more than I hate not having $10k cash sitting in the bank. So I am leaning toward attacking the student loans now.

The idea of DR's plan is to harness the motivation. You pay down the smallest debt first because it's just plain motivating. The motivation is much more valuable than the somewhat neglibable differences you'll pay in interest if you attack high interest first. (I've calculated it on my own stuff years ago, and indeed the difference was about $180 - not nothing, but the motivation is definitely worth more imho). So that's why I'm leaning toward just throwing ourselves at the student loan. Yes, the loan is really low interest, I don't even remember what it is but it's ridiculous. 2.5% maybe? But all the same it feels like a weight holding me down, it always has. I regret having this loan. I want to be rid of it.

So, we're on the road! Yay!
post #12 of 15
Maybe split the car payment until you have a $2,000 or $3,000 e-fund? Or even put the lot of it into e-fund until it's at the levelt hat makes you feel OK. Would you feel more secure?

I'm not a follower, but I've listened to the show and he always says if you're not feeling secure (like job insecurity or baby on the way), to bump up the e-fund.

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Originally Posted by laohaire View Post
I don't have the budget in front of me but suffice it to say that we have no lattes. We have no cable TV or even Netflix (all our TV entertainment is borrowing videos from the library - free), we pay $11/month for an incoming-only VOIP line, and $7/month for one cell phone for emergencies only. We have only 1 car and drive it so little that we have the low mileage discount on our insurance. Our clothing budget is $20/year, exclusively for DD to cover whatever her grandmothers's gifts don't cover (last year it was 1 pack of socks that she needed). DH shaves his head, I go 2 years between haircuts, and DH cuts DD's bangs. You get the idea.
Boo hoo! You're no fun at all! I wanted to come and tell you to cut out cable and lattes and the cell phones.
post #13 of 15
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Boo hoo! You're no fun at all! I wanted to come and tell you to cut out cable and lattes and the cell phones.
That's fun, isn't it

We've already taken the plunge, but while our situation is hardly rock-solid, my gut feels like there's no clouds on the horizon.

But I don't even claim to have a gut that can see more than maybe a year into the future.
post #14 of 15
Congrats on paying off that car!!!


I would say your next step is to really look at your monthly budget- zero it out and see if you can squeeze any more money from any category. Maybe make a game of it each month- one month tackle the grocery category, getting it as low as possible by eating from the pantry/freezer as much as possible. Then relax on that and tackle the car envelope the next month. See if you can go a whole month without gassing up the car. Just a way to keep things fresh.

I feel ya on the concerns about staying motivated when you just have one or two big debts. We're in BS2, but our ONLY debt is a HELOC for $42,000. So we don't have the satisfaction of paying off smaller debts, then rolling the payments over and over and over. We just have this one HUGE thing staring us in the face. I haven't even calculated how long it will take us to pay it off. Don't wanna go there.

P.S. And our BS1 EF is $10,000. I couldn't sleep at night with anything less.
post #15 of 15
Here are some links from the Ask Dave section of DR's website about student loan debt:

http://www.daveramsey.com/index.cfm?...tItemId=114838
http://www.daveramsey.com/index.cfm?...entItemId=7842

I have heard DR talk about different situations where a larger BEF is OK and I recall one of those being a BS2 that is longer than 2 to 2.5 years. However, I can't find any reference so don't take my word on it.

Congrats on paying off the car!
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