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post #1 of 7
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We're moving in a few months to be in a better school district, and it will mean going from a house with a yard to an apartment. The new neighborhood is much safer, and has much more green space, so I think overall it will be great for Lyle (2 year old 27 lb mutt, who has been with us almost a year), plus we'll have to get up and walk him 3 times a day which he will love, but I have a few concerns:

1) Poop -- Lyle has poop accidents sometimes when I'm at work. He's really prone to upset stomach/diarrhea and I think he tries hard not to, but sometimes it happens. They are always in the exact same spot and I just clean them up, since it's hardwood. The new apartment is all carpet, however. Can I train him to use a "pee pad" for this purpose? How would I do that? Is there any hope of training him to ask to go outside/hold it if possible and use the pad as a last resort?

2) Dog park -- I don't know if you remember that I posted that Lyle was really growly with us around Christmas, and snapped once (clearly a warning, not an attempt to bite, because he backed away first and the snapped at a distance -- still not cool). Anyway, we did a couple of things -- banned him from the furniture, upped the NILIF, kept him closer so he got more attention, and started making sure he drank more as he was diagnosed with crystals in his urine at the same time. The problem disappeared, with humans. However, every time we've gone to the dog park since then he's fine and then a new dog will come in and he'll get very growly -- if it's a big dog he throws his front legs over them (not humping, because the other dog's spine is right under his front "armpits") and makes a noise like an outboard motor. If it's a little dog he'l snarl and circle the other dog making a growly noise. I always end up snatching his collar and we leave. I don't think he'd bite -- I'm 99% sure of that, but of course I can't take that 1% chance so we leave every time. With no backyard I'd really love for him to be able to run and play sometimes, so I'd love to get him "dog park" trained -- any suggestions?

3) The leash -- he's a big time puller, it's really annoying, and if we're walking a lot more it will be even more annoying. I've tried all the training suggestions, but I think we're ready for something like a head collar or a harness. Any ideas on which is best? His head is shaped like a border collie, if that makes a difference.

4) Bedroom -- right now when I go to work, he's locked in to "his bedroom", which has no bed or chairs to jump on (yes, I cleared the furniture out of a room just for him), because of the concern that him being on the furniture was leading to the guarding. Our new place is 2 bedrooms, so he'll need to be in my room, DS's room or the living room when we go out, all of which have soft furniture. He stays off the furniture if we're there, but I've seen him through the window and he jumps right up if we go away. How likely is it that furniture access when we're away would lead to the space guarding coming back?

If you're read this far, thank you!
post #2 of 7
He sounds like a very dominant dog Not a bad dog...just a dominant one.

What he is doing with the big dogs is humping....a dominance hump.

As for the pee-pads I am not well schooled in them. Is your dog crate trained?

As for the head halter....I love the Gentle Leader. It is very easy to use (ask for it to be fit properly)...the principle is similar to a horse halter and gives you full control of their head as opposed to pulling their neck. I have seen little old ladies gain control over their big 100lb rotties with it. Seriously it the the halter I recommend. http://www.gentleleader.ca/ When fit properly it is snug enough around the muzzle so that they cannot paw it off. Be prepared for a learning/getting used to phase. The halter comes with a book with use and training tips.

As for the furniture issue. Keep on top of it while you are there. Constantly reminding him and not allowing him up while you are there. As it will be a new setting it may or may not be an issue. Again, using a crate while you are out or "crating" him the the bathroom or kitchen may be helpful.

All the best!!
post #3 of 7
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He's sort of crate trained. By sort of I mean that he'll go in if you lure him or lead him, but not on command, and he's quiet and "well behaved" while he's in there. However, I think it's pretty stressful to him and one of the ways he shows that stress is by not drinking. He's had problems with crystals in his urine in the past, and in fact the spike in "guarding" happened during a time when I think he wasn't drinking enough due to the stress of the holidays and traveling to see family. Anyway, because I don't want the crystals to come back I'm not really comfortable with crating him for longer than a few hours -- such as when I'm at work. I wonder how he'd do in the bathrooom -- that's a good suggestion.

I also don't think that the crate would solve the pooping issue. That is, I think it would solve the poop in the carpet issue, but I think he'd poop in the crate. He's not pooping on purpose, it's just that The other day I was feeling really sick, and stayed home to sleep. At about 2 he started pestering me, which is unusual because usually he respects the fact that if you are lying down you are asleep -- he'll seek out attention if you're up, but not if you're asleep or look like you're asleep. Anyway, he kept putting his front feet on the bed, pawing at my arm, nosing against me. Finally, he jumped on my bed twice in a row, which he doesn't usually do at all. I got up and locked him in the room where he spends the day, and a few minutes later he pooped diarrhea -- I felt awful because clearly he had tried his hardest to tell me he needed to go outside. That was the first time in 10 months that he's pooped inside when we've been home -- otherwise it's always when I'm at work for 8 hours straight, and not that often at that (probably on average a couple of times a month). Anyway, I think that it's a GI issue, not a behavior issue, and I'd hate to have him in his crate with poop all day if it happens.

As far as dominance -- with other dogs, I think he wants to be big and tough and alpha, but I don't think he's really very good at it. In the past when he's tried "regular" humping with other dogs it would usually end up with them rolling him, or otherwise making him submit. Now that he's growling, however, I don't feel safe with him getting to that point, so I take him home. Interestingly enough, daycare doesn't see any of this, and was shocked when I asked them.

He's totally not dominant with us or other humans -- he's always yielded space to people very easily, and other than that two week period (when he was probably in pain), he doesn't guard much of anything -- where we live it seems like people throw chicken wings on the ground, and even though he's always unbelievably excited to find one, he backs right off if you reach for it -- no guarding at all. So, I don't think he's too dominant with people, in fact I'd say he's very "soft", except for those 2 weeks which were very odd.

I'll look into the gentle leader. Thanks for the suggestion.
post #4 of 7
1.) Poop issues, I'd say that's not normal. I can't recall what you're feeding him but have you tried making some changes there to improve the situation? Diarrhea with enough urgency that he can't hold it doesn't sound like a good thing to live with long term.
2.) Not a big fan of dog parks myself, not at all. I guess I've just seen too many clueless owners and dogs. I'd scope the place out yourself first and try to find a time when there's no dogs there or very few. You can do a lot as far as exercise and exploring on leashed walks and using a long line in places where it's not busy.
3.) The Halti head halter is my preferred one because it seems to sit further from the dog's eyes which bothers them less. I found that as per their size guidelines I needed a smaller size than I thought (but then I was getting it for my mixed breed so it's not an exact science, lol). Plan to do desensitization (put on, treat, take off) before you go anywhere with it. There are also front-clip harnesses but I would personally stay away from those cause I've heard they can cause problems with the elbow joints by putting torque on them in an unnatural way.
4.) As long as the room is puppy-proofed I think it will be fine. Dogs figure out "the rules" pretty fast. At my mom's our dogs aren't allowed on the furniture. One of them gets up there when no one else is around and when she hears someone coming she hops off. As long as you enforce it while you're home I think he'll get the message - and that is "humans own the furniture". After you've settled in the new place (not right away cause there can be issues with adjusting at first) you can consider giving him the run of the place, depending on how things go.

Congrats on the new place!
post #5 of 7
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The poop issue is definitely food related. It was pretty constant at first on Mighty Dog (what he was eating in rescue), we then switched to EVO and had the opposite problem -- so constipated that we'd have to be walking for an hour for him to go. Eventually we found a food that worked well for him -- Canidae grain free, and we were problem free for a while, but if something goes wrong with his schedule so that he's not getting enough exercise, or if he eats something that doesn't agree with him we have another incident. For example, the other day we were at the dog "health food store" and the owner gave him a treat that I think didn't agree with him, that combined with the fact that I was sick so he didn't get a nice walk which always helps, lead to the incident I described, I'd say it averages 2 times a month, but it might be 4 days in a row and then 2 months with nothing. The vet thinks it's just a sensitive stomach, nothing more. Anyway, 2 times a month on the hardwood -- not a huge deal. 2 times a month on carpet -- not fun.

The dog park thing is hard because he did really well with them for a long time. He's addicted to fetch, and I think the hardest thing about the apartment will be not being able to play. Now we play both inside and out, but with people under us I'm not sure we'll be able to play inside either.
post #6 of 7
Can you put a gate up and keep him in the kitchen with a doggy bed while you are gone? That way if he does have an accident it will be easy clean up.

I am clueless about the other stuff. We feed our pup raw which has helped the runny poo situation he came from the shelter with. He is also a terrible puller and the only thing that has helped is a prong collar. I hate it but it's the only way I can walk him.
post #7 of 7
Thread Starter 
Hmmm, I think he'd just jump a baby gate. We have one here that we lean up against the bottom of the stairs, and he respects it while we're in the room, but I thnk he'd vault it the moment I closed the door. Also, the idea of poop in the kitchen is kind of gross -- what if he stepped in it and then put his paws up on the counter or something?

I guess I could lock him in the bathroom, it would solve both the poop and furniture issue. It's pretty small but maybe it would be less anxiety provoking than a crate?

Luckily on the pulling since he's small it's annoying rather than impossible to walk him. I totally understand trying a prong but I'm hoping we can avoid that.
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