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3/29/10 at 5:29pm
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Originally Posted by hakeber View Post
No, I'm not sure. And I am really confused as to how to process that, but it is entirely possible that he lied about her taking it and everything else, and then found it and put it back himself. A bit of a coincidence that it showed up again after she was allowed access to his room at the party, but not at all impossible that she really never did have it and he was making the whole thing up. But why? Why would blame his new friend if he likes her so much? Why would he say that she said not to tell me and all that? I don't get it.
That's a tough one. If you can't be sure, then I think I might leave this incident alone. I would keep talking to him about honesty and trust. I'd explain that you rely on him to be honest with you, so that you can be confident that you know the best way to help him if he has a problem.

It's a little like seeing the doctor. If you don't tell the doctor what's bothering you, and describe the symptoms accurately, she won't be able to figure out what's wrong and what's the best way to treat it. So you won't get better as quickly.

Good luck with this.
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