I would not believe this if it didn't happen to me.....
I was indecisive about being with "him"
I broke it off with him.
Then I found out I was pregnant. He told me he was seeing someone else.
At that time I told him we could co-parent, then it hit me I wanted us to be a family.
He never gave me a straight answer, whether he was going to be with me or not, but we were still affectionate with each other.
He told me he was moving but did not say with her. I found out after the fact when I heard her voice in the background....something told me to ask him (he said yes)
.....He never told me (that he was getting married), until 1 week before the wedding which was also 1 week after my birthday.
I was planning my baby shower and he was under the impression that he could invite her. I told him hell f*ing no. He decided that he would not come to the shower.
Something once again told me to make it clear to him that she was not allowed within feet of that hospital when I was giving birth. He said he would respect my wishes.
..... Wouldn't you know it she ended up at the hospital not only that she ended up in my room.
I had to fight so hard to keep from breaking down. This has been my secret from my family.... I am so embarassed... the father of my child got married to someone else while I was pregnant!!!! How could I ever reveal this to them.
Its tearing me apart inside.... I still love him soooooo much... I think about him all day everyday.
He tries to include his wife in every way.
I told him this is so hard for me and that I need him to wait until the wounds are not still so fresh.... (he still shows me affection) this is why it is so hard to get over him.