My dh dropped the bomb on me that he wanted a divorce about 6 weeks ago. We have 5 children, ages 9 months to 15 years. This came out of nowhere, and has really left me reeling. I honestly don't recognize this man.
I know that the kids and I will get through this. I just wish I knew how. I've always been a planner, and I feel like my life is spinning out of control, like the rug has been yanked out from underneath me.
It's hard to put my thoughts into words, but I just wanted to post somewhere where someone would understand.
I know that the kids and I will get through this. I just wish I knew how. I've always been a planner, and I feel like my life is spinning out of control, like the rug has been yanked out from underneath me.
It's hard to put my thoughts into words, but I just wanted to post somewhere where someone would understand.
I'm so sorry that you are going through this, mama. It's so hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel when you're at the beginning. Keep in your heart that though it seems like this is the hardest, scariest place in the whole wide world right now, you and your children will be fine. You will find strength and courage that you didn't know existed. You will make a new life with your children. You will find happiness again. The sun will not cease to shine on you. You deserve to be happy and to love someone who loves you back for everything that you are. Stay strong, stay confident, and stay true to who you are at your core!! 
