There is a book called
The Essential C-Section Guide
. It's not the book you want for planning a vbac, but it's an amazing book if you know you're having a c/s. Very detailed and pretty nitty-gritty. Your library may have it, or it could be part of your local ICAN chapter's lending library.
A lot will depend on hospital policy/protocol so speak to someone in anesthesiology about options, and to someone in the mother/baby unit about your post-op preferences as soon as possible. I'm not saying you should just accept what "they" say, but do find out what the policies are at the hospital you'll use, and their reasoning for those policies, so you'll know where you might need to push.
My hospital was very mama/babe friendly... post op a nurse stayed with us any time my dh had to leave (many hospitals wont leave a babe with a post-op mom till mom is considered mobile/recovered and that time may vary by hospital), they aim to have post-op moms up and walking (with IVs out) in the first 8 hours or so, they don't restrict eating/drinking, and they offer a variety of meds... I had percocet for the first day, then tylenol 3 along with an iron pill and a gasX pill for the remainder of my stay. They use spinals for all c/s unless the mom had a labor epidural in which case they use that line.
I just had a second vbac at a different local hospital and their policies were very different... they also did spinal only, but they keep mom in bed on IV/cath for 24 hours post-op, restrict food/drink during this time, wont leave babe with mom during that time (and they don't provide nursing staff if mom doesn't have another adult), etc. Although I planned a vbac, I met with hospital staff and had a backup plan in my chart that met their concerns and my needs. For example, we had approved support staff lined up so we could room in even if I was post-op and dh was with our other children.
Anyway, I hope your babe turns! But either way, do find out the specific policies surrounding c/s at that hospital so that you'll be able to put your energy to good use. And check out the MDC natural family living cesarean resources thread (it's a sticky on this forum) for ideas about making your birth the best experience possible and your recovery swift!