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[Snapdragon]

I kind pf like Gavin, it was on one of our lists.
still have no idea.

[Fireflyforever]

I've just been looking at his picture. He's so gorgeous Based on his picture I thought:

Leo, Gabriel (but Gabe for short) or Jacob.

Wishing you inspiration! I know we didn't have a boy's name planned for Toby - and DH is still not 100% sold on Tobias! (but he loves the meaning). I do love it and just felt it was "his name". I hope you find that for your LO.

[RedOakMomma]

Originally Posted by 2boyzmama

My husband is James, and our oldest son is Ian James (did you know that, ROM? I think of your boys a lot )

Thanks. (And GREAT list of names, btw!)

[Snapdragon]

Thanks for saying he is gorgeous! I think so too

[accountclosed3]

did you go back a few generations and look at fathers/uncles?

i think you'll find a unique one.

[Snapdragon]

Originally Posted by zoebird

did you go back a few generations and look at fathers/uncles?

i think you'll find a unique one.

yeah, (nak) we don't have any names we like on either side.
We did look through a cool baby names book from 1941 that we got at the library but nothing jumped out too strongly yet.
we are working hard at it though.

[accountclosed3]

i wouldnt work too hard. he can tell you.

that's how hawk got his name.

[Right of Passage]

Katie34 I hope you don't mind me dropping in on the Feb DDC, I think you're adorable little boy fits the Cavan (Kah vn? or KA vin or other?) Seeing his picture that word seems to be his. Really he is adorable.

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[Lauren31]

I looooooooooove James!!!!! It's the perfect man and baby name . It is our number 1 for a ds if we are blessed with one. I also love Gavin. Cavan really doesn't do it for me... Teo is fine but, Kai is way better, imo. Topaz seems like you are trying too hard...

I love James Gavin, second, Gavin James, then James Cavan. GL!!!

[Lauren31]

actually chaucer is a great middle name!!! James Chaucer sounds good

[Right of Passage]

I think it sounds great and it fit your litte one!

[accountclosed3]

i really like James Chaucer too, but can't argue against James Topaz.

[Ambystoma]

Originally Posted by Lauren31

actually chaucer is a great middle name!!! James Chaucer sounds good

I was going to say James Chaucer. or Teo Chaucer. Really, I like Chaucer as a middle and could make any of the others go with it

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[Lauren31]

Originally Posted by Katie34

I think you are putting WAY too much pressure on yourself to find the "perfect" name. I think if you love the way it sounds and that the baby fits it just go with your gut. None of us know your baby personally. The more opinions you get the more confused you will be. Set a deadline for a decision and just go with it.

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[NicoleS]

What if you looked at it a different way? Instead of trying to choose a name that fits baby now, how about one that fits the person you want him to grow into?

I personally have never seen a baby and thought "wow, he really looks like a Sam, I can't believe his parents named him Jorge". I think children grow into their names, whatever they may be.

[Lauren31]

Originally Posted by Katie34

The thing is, being the type of person that I am, I would prefer no pressure at all! Meaning a good long length of time in which to let it come naturally[...]
And no name has yet come to us easily. so that is why it is not happening yet!
I know it doesn't have to be perfect but it is still a powerful thing- to name someone!

I just think you need to trust your instinct and gut on the matter.... I agree, to name him something that you envision for him... a baby will grow into their name and become it. It is a powerful thing but even more so is the way you raise him. what are your top names and how do you feel about each of them?