On the surface yes this would seem to be a good thing that he's involved but if you were around him you would understand... Not always a good thing and sometimes parents can be involved for the wrong reasons kwim? And come on a stretch hummer for a kindergarteners birthday? What does he plan to do for the kids 16th? Fly him to Vegas? To us that's too much too soon and a bad influence. It's more than that. There will always be crummy people who think they are big shots out there and he is, however ordinairily you can choose not to have your child have play dates etc with them and not be influenced by those parents...but because he's involved at school it's automatic that the kids are around him. I'm aware that at public school kids are around the full spectrum, the neglected
, the overindulged, the kids from families who really care and are decent, the kids from families who could care less....
He simply makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up and when I don't follow my instincts I always regret it.... I think I just answered my own question
. If something were to happen I would never forgive myself for not listening to my gut.
If anyone has had any experience with this and how you went about it that would be very helpful.