we refer to DS as "bug" online...so going with that theme he had a "bug" party for his first. did these invitations:
http://www.vistaprint.com/vp/ns/stud...d2&page=1&rd=2
made a caterpillar cake like this:
http://www.coolest-birthday-cakes.com/cake-gallery.html a large one for the adults and a mini version as DS's smash cake. Each body segment was a different flavor cake. and I made spots out of pre-colored fondant circles (layered or not)
instead of party hats I made bug antennae out of headbands, pipe cleaners, and pompoms for all the guests.
For a guestbook I bought a hardback copy of "the Hungry Caterpillar" and marked out a section for a picture to be placed later and asked people to sign the inside cover pages.
You can take balloons and color/connect them to create various bugs (ladybugs, caterpillars, bumblebee, etc).
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