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Poll Results: Do your children play make believe?

This is a multiple choice poll
  • 37% (82)
    yes ages 2-4
  • 34% (76)
    yes ages 5-7
  • 18% (41)
    yes ages 8-10
  • 5% (11)
    yes ages 11-12
  • 2% (5)
    yes ages 13 and up
  • 1% (3)
    no, please post why
218 Total Votes  
post #21 of 31
Yes. Ages 2-4, 5-7 and 13+. It looks a little different (mostly) with ds1 than with younger kids, but he defintiely still plays, using his imagination. He daydreams, draws, creates scenes out of clay, role-plays (sort of - not in games - just suddenly being a pirate or something...and he's constantly speaking in speech patterns from movies and stuff - he does an amazing Captain Jack Sparrow, for instance) and also has a lot of enthusiasm for life and recreation of all kinds. (He's currently in acting classes, choir, and Ultimate. He also plays guitar, draws, juggles, and does gymnastics. He loves to be a counselor at Outdoor School, because he thinks kids are fun. He wants to take a dance class, and take a part in the school musical next year. He's hyped about eventually learning to work leather, blacksmith, blow glass, and a bunch of other things. He thinks those things are all fun.) He's already planning out this year's Halloween costume, and intends to get a job, just so he can afford all the components (he'll make it up himself, but he's doing the aforementioned Jack Sparrow, so it's not going to be cheap). He bought a large box of mini candy canes, just to hand them out to classmates at Christmas. He's just...fun...and very, very imaginative.

DD1 and ds2 are more into "typical" make believe...playing weddings and making up stories featuring movie characters, playing restaurant or store, and playing dressup...and playing with blocks and stuff. They both like to pretend that various toys are food, and go around serving them to everyone (coloured blocks might be blueberry pie and lemonade). They have a whole, huge, made-up world. I only know pieces of it.


ETA: Sorry to go on like that. For years, I kept expecting ds1 to acquire that almost jaded vibe that so many of his friends had by about 4th grade...and he never did. He's got the kind of enthusiasm I usually only see in little kids, and it makes me enthusiastic!
post #22 of 31
I picked "no", only because they are pretty much grown up now. But, my daughter played pretend until she was about 11-ish.
post #23 of 31
DS is 4.5 and he loves to pretend. He has a bunch of dress up clothes and when outside he and one of our neighbors (nearly 9 yo girl) play 'recipe' every chance They other day in the car he had an elaborate story pretending he was driving a race car (with no roof!) to New Jersey to visit his grandparents and their dog. It was rather cute and a great way to pass the time.

I remember pretend playing with my friends through the 5th grade.
post #24 of 31
I'm not voting because my DD is only two and really just starting with what I consider make-believe play...

but I had to share that my twin sister and I played elaborate make-believe games up until we were in high school and couldn't get anyone else to play with us anymore. We probably stopped around age 16. I think we would have continued if we hadn't gotten too busy with jobs and school and things. Now she's an actress and I'm a writer, and we were just talking recently about how actually we're both still playing make-believe in our careers!
post #25 of 31
My 4yo lives in her own world, and each day she's something different. My 5yo is more into reading, researching, she's a little scientist.
post #26 of 31
Well, when I was a teen I still played. I did drama all the time, which is just playing, really, and we would dress up and go out and pretend all kinds of crazy things, just for fun. We'd put on prom dresses for no reason and go out to dinner someplace silly and just be characters, or we'd all dress up 60s style. I'd imagine and maybe act out a little bit senarios in my head (ie stories that have now become books I've written, and fantasies of winning Oscars, love and admiration, etc ). DD plays make-believe nonstop. She's almost 3.
post #27 of 31
My older two are 4.5 (DD) and 7 (DS). DD is definitely playing make believe all the time with baby dolls, ponies, dressup clothes, dolls, etc. all the time. DS is more into using his Star Wars Legos to reenact scenes from the movies or new ones (light saber or space ship battles, etc.) that he makes up. I imagine in a year or two their baby sister will join them.
post #28 of 31
My eight-year-old plays pretend games all the time, and so do her friends -- they had a "wand shop" at school selling twig wands for imaginary money, they are magic animals and wizards and fairies and I don't know what all. It gets very elaborate, she draws pictures of herself as a sorceress and writes magic books and they are spies sometimes too. When we go to the pool, she wants to be a baby seal or a baby mermaid or my pet magic capybara ...

These are all kids in public school, btw, mostly in her class (multi-age accelerated).

I do think there are, and always have been, kids who are less into "let's pretend" and more into building, tinkering, and exploring. That's why the toys has stuffed animals and dress-up clothes AND Tinker-Toys, snap-circuits, and bug-catching gear. Different strokes!
post #29 of 31
My kids all like to play pretend. They're 9, 6, 4 and 2.
post #30 of 31
Yes, DS creates with Lego's. He loves to play 'NASCAR'. He gets creative with art supplies. Somedays its quite funny to watch. He also loves to watch movies, use the internet and use those to help him create new ideas within his play.

He likes to be outside as well but summer is fast approaching (AZ) as soon it will be too hot to be outside and 99% of the time will be inside.

I forgot to add DS is learing via the internet how to create movies (stop motions?) and upload those to a website.
post #31 of 31
My 11 loves to make "set ups" with rocks, shells, foreign coins, and model dragons. She can do this for HOURS. About once I month I take the whole thing down so I can vacuum her room.

My 13 year old has functioning autism and her play looks very different, but she does have an imagination, too. Lately, she's been busy designing dresses for her imagainary land. A few months back she was busy designing maps.

I read a chapter of a book out loud every night, and think that hearing so much fiction over the years has kept both my kids more in their imaginations as they've gotten older.
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