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Doulas?

post #1 of 5
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I'm curious if anyone is planning to hire (or has hired) a doula for labor support?

I'm thinking it be nice to have someone to "mother" me a little while I'm in labor and bring me water/juice, food, remind me to go to the bathroom and help me in there if necessary.....
post #2 of 5

Yes!

I'm a single lady so I absolutely hired a doula for my birth! Unlike many of the women on the UC board to have the optional help from a partner I used her to get me glasses of water, massage my back during labor and labored mostly with my arms wrapped around her waist on the toilet. She helped clean things up for me, get a bowl for the placenta, and keep my family in check. Beyond that, when I went to the hospital for some stitches for my three second degree tears she went with me, helped me fill out the paperwork, called my family to check on the baby at home for me and held my hand during the procedure. When I had complications at the hospital, she advocated for my desire to breastfeed, and got the lactation consultant to pump me while I was in the ICU and that I was an organ donor if I didn't make it out of surgery.

I had a range of experiences, a flawless home uc with a healthy babe. A hospital transfer. And a major complication. All of which, were made easier by having had a doula.

I should mention, it was very hard to find someone to doula because I was having a UC. The idea terrified a many people and I had to be very clear that I was not looking for a medical professional, just a doula to do what doula's do. If you think that you might benefit from one that I suggest that you find someone you like or maybe another UC mom to support you during labor.
post #3 of 5
I have one and I love her! I agree with PP that it can be hard to find someone to be willing to work with a UCer but when you do find the one, she will be perfect.

I hired my doula because 1) We have two kids and one is a toddler... I will be trumped to her needs no matter what and 2) I wanted to have some female support. I don't have any close friends living locally and my mother is not the most supportive person. I also know that my doula will make sure to advocate what I want in the event of a transfer. I have realized with myself that I am not as strong headed as I normally am when I am in labor... thus my 2 less than favorable births. My husband is a go with the flow kind of guy and is easily persuaded so he isn't much help in that department.
post #4 of 5
I am a doula, and I LOVE to attend UC!

If you have a friend who is able to help you, a doula probably isn't necessary. At my birth, I invited another UC momma that was a friend of mine. I know for me, I wouldn't have been comfortable with someone that I just met during my pregnancy to be at the birth with me.

However, if you don't have any supportive females near by, I would def find a doula. But, BE SURE she is 100% supportive of UC. I attended a friends UC where the doula was spazzing out because she was nervous that the placenta hadn't been delivered. Apparently, she was scared something bad would happen, but she didn't let the momma know that...
post #5 of 5
I didn't technically have a doula, but I had a very good friend come and be my labor support. I really think she should become a doula, she anticipated my every need and it was wonderful.
I earning my doula certification right now and I plan on specializing in UC births. I would have liked to hire a doula during my pregnancy but none were willing to attend a UC.
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