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Welcoming our newest family member!

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Well, I am definitely a March mama! Our littlest one entered the world this morning at 3:03. She weighs 6 lbs. 14 oz., and is 19 3/4" long. I started having contractions around 7ish pm on the 29th, but thought they would quit, like they have every day for weeks. I ate supper, cleaned up the kitchen, and told DH I thought I would go grocery shopping. Contractions got stronger, but not more regular while walking around the store, to the point that I thought I should probably call my MW, doula, and mom to give them a head's up. When I got home, DH and I put the groceries away, and then DH sent me to bed to rest while I could. That was around 10:30 pm, and I called my birth people for a head's up, and went to bed. About an hour later, I told DH to call everyone back and tell them to come. It seemed like *forever* for everyone to get here, although it probably really wasn't that long.

I started to feel kinds pushy, and tried breathing the baby down for a few contractions, which felt nice. MW checked me and said to try really hard not to bear down, since I was only at about 6 cm, and the membranes were bulging (which is why I felt so pushy). I tried breathing and relaxing for the next forever, which was really hard. MW and DH got the birth pool set up, but said the water was too hot for me to get in. I finally said "I don't care, I'm getting in!" and I did. I was at the point of feeling really yucky and not being able to relax through ctx. anymore, but when I got in the water, I felt like I'd died and gone to heaven. Wonderful!

I labored in the pool for another forever, and started feeling like bearing down again, so MW checked, and said everything looked good, no lip (I've had a persistent lip with my previous 3 labors). I started bearing down, which hurt like mad. I had been sort of reclined in the pool, and felt like moving, so I draped myself over the edge of the pool. I guess that's what I needed, because I had one super long, incredibly intense surge of pushing, and really moved the baby down (I felt like I was going to burst, but kept reminding myself that it was just the baby moving down through my body). I had what seemed like about 3 seconds to catch my breath (everyone kept telling me to stop bearing down, relax, and breath, and I just *couldn't* stop). I had another massively strong, intense push, and said, "baby's coming, catch it!", and sure enough, her head slid out, and one more small push, and out came her body. It was amazing, intense, and just wow. I think my best birth yet. She is super alert; I couldn't get her to stop looking around long enough to nurse for probably 2 hours. She finally nursed, and went to sleep around 5 a.m.

We haven't yet chosen a name, so I'll have to post back later with that.
post #2 of 14
Yay! Congrats on your baby girl!
Amy
post #3 of 14
Congratulations!!!
post #4 of 14
Congrats!!!
What a beautiful birth...you sound so calm...I will be remembering when it gets rough for me.

Enjoy!
post #5 of 14
Woot! congrats!!
post #6 of 14
Congrats!!!!!!
post #7 of 14
Congrat's Mama!
post #8 of 14
Congratulations!!!!!!!
post #9 of 14
Yippee! Welcome baby!
post #10 of 14
Congrats!
post #11 of 14
Thread Starter 
She is proving to be very peaceful at the moment. She has been sleeping for like 3 hour stretches at night, which is wonderful! My older children are in love with her; I think we may need to institute a take-a-number policy to minimize the fighting over whose turn it is to hold her.
post #12 of 14
Congratulations on your sweet little girl!! Any name yet?
post #13 of 14
Thread Starter 
No. Frankly, I am tired of discussing it with DH. He is pretty set on Elise, which I like, but don't really want to use as a first name (DD1 is Elizabeth, and I think the names are too close). I really want to use Serena, and Elise as a middle name, but DH isn't in love with Serena. gaaahhh!! I know we'll work it out, but I just feel frustrated. I guess part of it is that I feel like I've never had strong feelings about a name in the past that DH loved and I didn't, so if DH had a preference for one name, I was always happy to go along with it (to the point that DS2 didn't have a name for over a week, because DH couldn't find anything he loved). I feel like now that I do have a strong preference, DH should return the favor.
post #14 of 14
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Well, we have finally decided. Her name is Eleanor Ruth. It isn't either of our first choices, but is in both of our top five, so I guess that's good. I am glad to have it behind us, because I am sick of discussing it with DH.
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