I can talk about when I was pregnant with my first child, she is now 2.
In a nutshell: Yes I was in touch with her before we conceived her.
I knew exactly when I fell pregnant with her, there was no guessing, testing, planning, or anything like that. It was a a profound spiritual experience the entire time, very sublime. When I decided "now" was the time to have her conceived, upon making the choice, pregnancy occured at first try.
I knew she was a girl, and around the time she was 13 weeks and felt some flutters, she came to me in my dream, but she came to me as an indian boy from her past life and told me that her "real" name is Ashtar. She now has "Ashtar" as her middle name, in honor of her spirit telling me this. My partner at the time received her first name as a voice.
The most profound part of the experience was knowing inherently how the birth was going to be, and how she will grow up. I knew things that I could not ever explain which gave me incredible comfort. For instance, right before I gave birth, I had a dream that she was sitting on my lap, around the age of 2, with curly blonde hair and stunning grey-blue eyes and a gapped tooth smile, well I can honestly say that dream was a true gift from the future, she does have blonde curly hair, grey-blue eyes, gaps between her teeth, and had the same facial features. I also had a vision (similar) when she looked like she was 6 months old.
Whenever I was concerned, for instance, maybe many hours without feeling movememnt, I would have a dream during a nap that I saw her inside my womb, very dark, and she told me she was fine and moved around a bit. When I woke I felt my kicks that I wanted.
I don't have time to tell the story properly, or in every detail right now, it would take a long time and it would take a lot out of me. There were many more incredible insights and profound experiences, some including heightened sense perception, including a neighbors cat and being able to predict events, I think my magic powers were increased during my pregnancy.
I never thought about writing about the experience in case it sounded too good to be true. I'd rather just live with it. Like a lofty fairy tale.
I am pregnant again, and this was also after much communication with the spirit of my october new born. My new partner, my soul mate, has had communication with this being for many years and was only waiting to find me, his soul mate. We both had long term relationships while being friends for over 9 years, only for me to get out of my severe abusive relationship, and he got out of his own relationship and we finally embraced eachother and fulfilled our desires to show eachother how much in love we are. Anyway once we talked about how future baby, we decided to go ahead and try and get pregnant, after one try, I got a positive result.
We bothe have had dreams about our baby and he has had visions.
This is another story in the making.
Perhaps one day I will write about it. But I am still not sure. I enjoy writing and mostly write about nutrition, superfood, health, and spirituality for a book series for a friend, a few chapters here and there. I was also thinking about a blog. But I am still unsure.
I would love to hear what everyone else has to say.
What a great topic to raise Saskia.
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