Okay, I have some more time this morning. Here's a good basic link to explanations about hearing loss:
http://www.babyhearing.org/hearingam.../audiogram.asphttp://www.raisingdeafkids.org/heari...ing/audiogram/
And here's a picture of what's called a "speech banana"
http://www.npcsd.mhrcc.org/local/hig...ech_banana.htm
Basically, hearing is tested across different frequencies and at different decibels. The results are plotted on a graph. Hearing loss is described in terms of "mild" "moderate" "severe" and "profound", not as percentages like you might sometimes hear (I have a coworker who keeps saying her daughter has 40% hearing loss...what does that mean? I keep asking her what frequencies and decibels and she doesn't know)
Hearing loss can be conductive, sensorineural, or mixed (a combination). My experience is with mild-moderate conductive loss.
The "speech banana" shows where the speech sounds most often occur in frequency and decibels. For example, "m" "d" "b" all occur at about 250-500Hz and 40dB. So if your child has a hearing loss of 45dB at 250-500Hz, he will not be able to hear those speech sounds correctly.
Hearing loss is hard to notice because kids are very perceptive, and very in-tune with their environment. So a child with a moderate or even a severe loss will still turn when someone walks in the room (they felt the vibrations), they'll still respond to their name (they did hear you talking, and they eventually learn to differentiate their name from other speech sounds), they'll still startle when a pan gets dropped in the kitchen. So often parents have no clue that there's an issue until speech is delayed. And often pediatricians encourage parents to "wait a bit longer" before worrying about a speech delay, especially in a boy. So it's great that you found this so early!! If a hearing loss is missed on the newborn screen, it's usually not found until preschool or kindergarten screening!
SO...here's my story then. My son has mild-moderate fluctuating conductive hearing loss, worse in his left ear than his right, and primarily at low frequencies (250, 500, 1000). His is caused by malformed external ears, malformed ear canals, malformed ear drums, fluid build-up from a cleft palate, and history of many severe ear infections. All of that is caused by a chromosomal deletion he has called Velocardiofacial Syndrome or DiGeorge Syndrome.
He failed his newborn hearing screen, but at the time we were frankly much more concerned with other health issues he had (breathing, feeding, failure to thrive, etc) And his external ears were folded flat against his head, so I was assured that it would just take time for the fluid to work its way out. We didn't know at the time that his ear canals were malformed also. Around 6 months old was when some of his other problems started stabilizing, and I started asking about his ears. They had "opened" by then, and we could tell that his canals weren't normal. Not a single dr could see in his ears. His response to sound was very inconsistent, sometimes he seemed hyperresponsive, sometimes he seemed as if he heard literally nothing. Finally at 10 months a cat scan was done of his ears and we discovered *severe* infection rampant in his inner ear and mastoid bone. So for a while we were focussed on getting the infection under control, that took months and finally led to a PICC line (an uber-IV that delivered antibiotics directly to his heart). He was on home infusions on his PICC line for 4 weeks straight.
Once we got the infections under control, and got referred to the right specialist, we started paying attention to his hearing. He was 16 months old by then, and just starting to respond to sound, also just starting to babble some. Unfortunately he isn't a good candidate for a hearing aid because of the variability of his hearing loss (it is sometimes "normal" at 20 dB, sometimes as bad as 50 dB) and also because of his malformations (it would be hard to fit an aid to his ears and his ear canals)
He has had a few things done to his ears, he had tubes put in (very hard to do because of his canals being so small) he had the infection cleaned out, and we're monitoring his ear canal growth to determine whether we're going to do a canaloplasty to enlarge his canals. For now he's pretty stable, he's only had 3 (or 4?) infections since the PICC line was taken out 20 months ago. He's in speech therapy once a week privately and once a week at school. We use ASL with him because his expressive speech is so delayed (he also has Apraxia, which is a neurological condition that effects his speech, it will likely be years before he won't need to rely on ASL anymroe) He attends a public school with an interpreter. His teacher wears a microphone and there's a wall-mounted FM system in the classroom so the teacher's speech sounds are amplified just a bit so he doesn't have to work so hard to differentiate speech sounds from environmental sounds.
SO...that's my son's story.