well...that was an interesting thread to read! lol. I've only seen a completely nekkid pubis once in my 23 births, and it was shocking to me. It looked pre-pubescent to me, and not womanly. Besides that one, I'd say I see about half trimmed and half au naturel in my practice.
Before I married I was 100% natural on all my body hair...except on a couple of occasions when I shaved my armpits and lower legs for a bathing suit. Once I wasn't wearing shorts with my bathing suit and pubic hair was sticking out...my dad saw it and shamed me publicly about not having the "modesty" to conceal my hair. Bullsh*t!!! After that I was even more determined to show him that I will not do anything to my body because of someone else's expectations! I wore sleeveless tops with armpit hair and knee-length skirts with full leg-hair; my dad despised it and commented regularly. <grin> I just retorted that I was a woman, and if he preferred women looking like little girls, then that's his problem...not mine
I do shave my armpits and legs occasionally now that I'm married, but really it's such a bother and most of the time I don't. Again, I told Dh that I was a woman, not a porn star, and that God gave women hair! lol. I also like hubby's hair and hated that the Air Force cut off his beard and the beautiful dark curls atop his head.
And yes, certain bed activities that were referenced by PP's can most definitely be done with pubic hair, lol. Try it sometime!