Punchy Kaby- I wanted to do a Bday brunch, but I dont know. I've been thinking it might be fun to go to this park Peace Valley and have an outside bday, mostly because DD will be the happiest baby if she's outside, no matter if there's a lot of people or what, but we dont have a car so it might be easier to just invite a few people over here. I SUCK so much at planning things.
And what is with doctor prescribing antibiotics for EVERYTHING? I was watching House one night and they made a joke about that. It made me laugh because it's so true.
I got DD a swimsuit on Ebay. It was like 5$ with shipping. My MIL has a pool at her house and she always tells me to come so her kids can swim without she having to be there. Ebay is great, I've been selling everything there and using the money to get DD the things she needs.
I've been reading a lot here and the resources posted on Frugality and Finances. I feel like I know how to be frugal, but the hardest part is getting DP to be on the same page as I am, for the most part I handle the finances, because he's really bad with money, but I find myself always having to explain why we cant buy this or why we can only spend X amount on groceries and if you get a million drinks that leaves no money for food, etc, etc. I applied for foodstamps and energy assistance and it appears we might be able to get it. I need a letter from dss' mom saying that he comes here from Thursday to Sunday and that she receives 600$ a month from DP. In the online application said we might be approved for 400$ a month of food stamps and if that happens, that might mean we will actually be able to pay our bills on time and even get Sophia the things she needs without having to first sell a million things and eat as healthy as I'd like us to eat. People might talk a lot of bad things about the USA, but it certainly feels great to know that for the people in need there is help, I just hate when people abuse what is there for people who really need it.
I also made an appt. on Sat to go to a psychologist. I've been postponing it, like I was with the dentist, but I think it might be REALLY good for me to see someone. I dont know for the past 3 years of my life I've felt rather crazy and Im not all about taking medication to feel "good", but I think just talking to somebody about a lot of past issues might help me clear my head. I also feel that I need to first "organize" my mind, before I can organize my life. The next doctor Im seeing is an ophtalmologist, my vision is so bad. I've always had problem with my eyes, from allergies and at 15 I had a cornea trasplant on my right eye, but I still varely see from that eye. A couple of years ago I took an attitude of "I give up and I dont care". I just always went to the doctor like a million times for my eyes and my allergies, so I kinda grew sick of them, but I shouldnt ignore the problems that are there.
Oh and I have the 30 day shred I should try doing that during dd's naptime. Im so happy the weather is nice though, we've been having our meals outside and just playing a lot. It's funny DD cares more about big kids than babies. With babies she's all like "meh, I can do what you do", but with kids she goes crazy, screams, giggles and waves and dances.