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Originally Posted by Oliver's Mama 
So our consensus is we'll use condoms for now, and if ds2 turns into a wildchild like ds1, we'll do a V. If he's a good kid, we'll wait maybe 4 years, and according to dh.. get rid of the cat first, and then try.
yikes!
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2 weeks is not unreasonable for thinking about BC, but if you're not ready, you're not ready. And making decisions now doesn't mean you can't change them in the future.
We used condoms and abstinence before (seriously) and we'll use condoms again, because I had a really bad experience with hormones that I don't want to repeat, and also because I'm in the prime of my fertility and I don't mind so much if we have an "accident" baby. I'm hoping that our abstinence issues fix themselves, because I'd love to have sex more often, but we're a ways from exploring that. And my butt needs to heal more. Ouch.
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Originally Posted by dhinderliter 
yay i'm here! we're into day 2. it feels so great! i'm pretty sore down there. i ended up having a cyst that got found from pushing removed it so i still have stitches....i HARDLY tore but cause they had to take that out it made it seem like i tore more than i did! guess i'll never have a birth where i DON"T get stitches... 
Reeve is such a mellow one! he's not upset about dirty diapers and so far just crys for gas, burps and food...and the spitting up. i *think* he has a piece of phlem in his throat back farther where it hits the gag reflex and he can't get it out. last night he was up a lot because he kept "choking" and spitting up. the spit up wasn't a lot it was a little bit yellow, sometimes it was foamy and other times it was mucosy. i'm not quite sure what to do...
however he slept all night pretty much without feeding! he tanked up before hand feeding at 8 9 10 and 11 then didn't eat again till 9 a.m. this morn!
also his hands and feet are REALLY dry...what should i use? the creases in his feet are "cracked" and have some blood on them so i really need to do something. not sure if regular lotion is ok or what.
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I wouldn't worry too much about the spitting up, his airway will probably resolve itself, and it's yellow because of your colostrum (though DD's first bright yellow spit up freaked me out, so I know where you're coming from). His feet sound a little yeasty, honestly, so I would call the pedi before you do anything. If it's not yeast, then a little lanolin (like for your nipples) would be fine.
AFM: I'm on day three and starting to get into the swing of things. It's so weird going from nursing my newborn DD to my toddler DS and back again, they're so different! My milk came in last night and I'm loving the feeling of let-down and fullness again. I missed it.
I feel like my life is a collection of bullet points:
- I'm taking a stool softener b/c pooping was making me anxious, and now I'm SO soft I decided to take my iron like a good girl.
- DD has jaundice which is making me a little worried, and she's not pooping as much as I would like. I'm hoping as my milk comes in it will be better today, but she's very sleepy.
- I still have schoolwork, so trying to do that with a toddler and a newborn is interesting. I'm grateful that DH is home full-time.
- I'm taking way more pills now than ever before in my life. I take my vitamin, and some fish oil, and a probiotic, and the stool softener, and iron, and sometimes motrin for my afterpains...It's crazy.
- My biggest challenge is getting enough food, however. I have to remind myself to eat because lounging around doesn't make me hungry.
Now my dryer buzzed, I have to nurse my daughter, and my belly is gurgling. Yay!