Lol, I just read through your Feb DDC thread!

Okay, I see it's not a name problem, it's a decision problem.
I totally feel you there. Esp with our second, I felt the weight of making such a permanent decision for someone else!! (Although someone could legally change their name in adulthood.)
My sense is that you kinda *like* out-there unusual names, but you aren't sold on going for something so unconventional. I love your ideas for more 'standard' first names with a twist for a nickname (Theodore/Teo, Jeddediah/Jed, Jeremiah/Jem, maybe even Nicholas/Nico or Sebastian/Seb). Gavin is most like the name you love, Cavan without the odd associations.
Have you written them down as if on a school book, as if on letterhead/resume? Helped me to imagine my girls' names in both childhood and adult settings.
Also for the decision making process, I've been able to trick my brain, leaving it to "Fate" by drawing a name from a hat. The point actually is that when I or someone else picked a name, my heart would either soar or sink, and I would realize what I actually resonated with! Weird, huh?
Good luck mama! Once he has his name for a bit, you won't be able to imagine it another way.
For dd2 we were stuck between two names, and now I can't IMAGINE her as a Rosie. She is totally a Tessa. But I'm sure just cause it grew on me!
