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my easter story - great BUT sad too

post #1 of 7
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my dd is 7 years old. i dont know how long the easter bunny will be real for us.

so i wanted this easter esp. to be special.

however i wasnt going to do anything different. it somehow happened that we had two easter egg hunt at church back to back.

and then suddenly she was ready to go home. i was surprised. she is never ready to go home.

'mommy MOMMY lets GO HOME. come on lets go. i want to see what the easter bunny left me.

YIKES!!!! holy cow i had nothing planned. i tried convincing her the easter bunny visited the church but she said nah - it was someone from church.

so i got a friend to take dd and i went easter present shopping. i was just going to get one of those huge baskets dd has always wanted but every place was out. so i ended up going to the only place that was open AND close by. a walmart. my first time.

oh boy that was one of the happiest times of my life. i got to play. i splurged. its next months rent money and i spent a third of it. i got her a plastic drawer set and got items to fill it - toys, clothes, swimwear, books, art materials, lip gloss, yarn and crochet hook, embroidery stuff. i love putting together a basket of little things instead of one big toy. and for the first time i BOUGHT JUNK cereal. lucky charms that dd has always wanted. i know that seh will not eat it all. most of it will get thrown away. but the fact that she got junk would tickle her pink.

then i called her and told her i was home and there was something by the door. oh how she squealed. then she got home and squealed and squealed some more. she loved it. every bit of it. her fav. though was the crochet stuff.

and here's teh sad part - last night as we were snuggling during bedtime seh told me 'mama i know why the easter bunny left me so much stuff. its because we are poor. the rich kids didnt get much because they get things all the time so the easter bunny saved for the poor kids. but we cant buy a lot. and so that's why the easter bunny left me so much.' it made me sad listening to her reasoning. at school she found out most kids got candy and nothing much else.

but here's why easter was so special for me this year. she was the oldest kid there. without me saying anything she took some of her eggs adn shared with the toddlers and hid of hers back for them and helped them find it. r: sniff.

she went to her dad's sunday night which is our usual exchange time.

do you have an easter story to share?
post #2 of 7
I don't have a story to share, but yours made me cry. It's not nice to do that to the pregnant lady!!!
post #3 of 7
Aww that is a very sweet story.

My kids were with their Dad for Easter this year and it was my first Easter away from them so it was pretty hard for me.
post #4 of 7
You're a wonderful mom.
post #5 of 7
My DD is 2yo and I didn't do anything at all related to the holiday. But your story was great. I love that. I am so glad that your DD got to experience that. There is sadness, yes, but the rich-poor contrast she is seeing is strictly a material thing. The love she felt and received goes way beyond what money can buy for her. She knows she is worthy of love, great love, regardless of any material worth! That is an important lesson. You rock Momma!
post #6 of 7
Im glad you both had a good easter

My dd is 7 now, we also went to a church easter fun event for the children, we did some arts and crafts, egg rolling race, balloon release, watched a dance group perform. Dd chose not to do the face painting or easter egg hunt.

The next day we went to the easter church service which all the children stayed in for instead of going out to sunday school. They had to look for eggs in the church, my dd found one and had to stand at the front with the other few that found them while we clapped for them. She's normally too shy to go out the front like that with everyone looking at her, but it was a spur of the moment thing and she just did it. We both learnt about easter during the service and she played on her game some of the time too, quietly ofcourse. Then we had a family dinner with some relatives, nothing fancy but it was good just to be together for a few hours.

We hadn't been to church for a few months, so it was nice to be there to celebrate easter, and both days it was just good to be in the atmosphere there yk?

I bought dd some gardening items so we can spend some quality time together planting seeds, and building a little green house to put them in. I also got her some candy and a couple books we can read together at bedtime.

Oh we also made easter cakes to give to the relatives we saw on the easter sunday too, that was fun. She was very proud of those cakes and they tasted good too.

It does break my heart a little when she, like your dd, comes out with things relating to not having a lot of money. She doesn't think of us as poor even though we are, she has done very well with all the toys etc she has. On her birthday though I remember her being so shocked I had bought this really expensive thing for her and she said we should take it back and get our money back and that she couldn't believe it? was it okay I spent money on it? etc. But hey, at least she won't grow up spoiled thinking she can have whatever she wants. I remind her of other children who are a lot less fortunate than herself, sleeping on the streets on cold nights or 5 of them sharing a bed, children in hospital, etc, she soon realises how good she has it really and how there are so many children much worse off than herself.

I do wish I could give her everything she desires sometimes and feel so bad when we see other children with all this "stuff" she doesn't have but wants, but that's something we all have to learn in life don't we? You can't have everything you want, no-one can.
post #7 of 7
She is still so amazingly sweet!!!
I loved the story.
I think this is something she will always remember, her big Easter.
I know what you mean too about it nearing the last one.
DD2 already suspects Santa, because someone at school mentioned it. :-(
DD... I think it's a matter of time before she finds out, and am not sure we will make it through this year.
Tammy
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