I just want to say thanks for the responses from experienced vbacers
I left out that the baby has been head down forever and just switches side to side.
Also, this will be my first vaginal birth, so I dont even know if the other ones dropped. The first one was at 36and 1/2 weeks and the second was 39 weeks.
I didnt have any type of prelabor or false labor or whatever with eithor one.
I am just terrified of coming this far and this guy "breaking it to me"
that he wont do it. It took forever to find this situation. I couldnt even find a midwife who would do it.
He might not give me a hard time at all, but I just want to be ready for week 40 in case it comes.
I told my dr. I'd rather have a 3rd c than be induced artificially.
He checked me yesterday after 3 days and 2 nights of steady contractions and my cervix is closed.
He is an awesome dr. and Im starting to trust him, but he has told me that if the baby gets too big he's not going to want me to deliver naturally.
Im 38 weeks now and the contractions totally stopped today and I feel pretty great after days of pain, pressure, contractions.....
I dont want to feel great! I felt so lousy that I was sure it was happening.
Im just wondering if there are any alternatives since Im refusing medical inducttion that are safe and work.
Yesterday he was totally cool and said that my cervix just isnt ready yet and he was fine with that. I just want to be prepared next week just in case he changes his tune.
I will NOT be put on pitocin or have that cervix stuff, but Im thinking I might let him break my water as a last resort if he starts saying he wont deliver the baby vaginally.
I know Im projecting, but I just want to be prepared.
I left out that the baby has been head down forever and just switches side to side.
Also, this will be my first vaginal birth, so I dont even know if the other ones dropped. The first one was at 36and 1/2 weeks and the second was 39 weeks.
I didnt have any type of prelabor or false labor or whatever with eithor one.
I am just terrified of coming this far and this guy "breaking it to me"
that he wont do it. It took forever to find this situation. I couldnt even find a midwife who would do it.
He might not give me a hard time at all, but I just want to be ready for week 40 in case it comes.
I told my dr. I'd rather have a 3rd c than be induced artificially.
He checked me yesterday after 3 days and 2 nights of steady contractions and my cervix is closed.
He is an awesome dr. and Im starting to trust him, but he has told me that if the baby gets too big he's not going to want me to deliver naturally.
Im 38 weeks now and the contractions totally stopped today and I feel pretty great after days of pain, pressure, contractions.....
I dont want to feel great! I felt so lousy that I was sure it was happening.
Im just wondering if there are any alternatives since Im refusing medical inducttion that are safe and work.
Yesterday he was totally cool and said that my cervix just isnt ready yet and he was fine with that. I just want to be prepared next week just in case he changes his tune.
I will NOT be put on pitocin or have that cervix stuff, but Im thinking I might let him break my water as a last resort if he starts saying he wont deliver the baby vaginally.
I know Im projecting, but I just want to be prepared.







