I've only been asked this once (which surprises me, because DH and I had only been ENGAGED for a week before we found out we were pregnant).
Q: Were you trying?
A: haha, no, just practicing!
I think it's a rude question though because just because it's not planned doesn't mean it's not wanted, and people I think assume that if you didn't plan it, you don't want it as much as if you did plan it.
Although, one of my friends did ask me "how do you plan an accident?" and then immediately apologize that that was rude.....but, at least she knows it was an accident but something DH and I want (obviously, I am carrying it to term....).
Q: Were you trying?
A: haha, no, just practicing!
I think it's a rude question though because just because it's not planned doesn't mean it's not wanted, and people I think assume that if you didn't plan it, you don't want it as much as if you did plan it.
Although, one of my friends did ask me "how do you plan an accident?" and then immediately apologize that that was rude.....but, at least she knows it was an accident but something DH and I want (obviously, I am carrying it to term....).
We've been TTC ever since dd was born two years ago, and I've been charting ever since my first PPAF came back 9 months ago. I have PCOS and it took us 2 years to conceive dd, so we figured it would take a while this time, too.
