So today marked my first "real" ultrasound, for the wellness of the baby and I finally saw my little bean (because honestly, that's what he looks like)! I'm all excited, I go to work, come home, sit down (because technically, I'm on a light bedrest...more on that later) and watch some tv and my nan comes in and asks about the ultra sound, I say it went good and she asks, "so you're going to have the procedure?" which is her nice way of saying "get an abortion" and I go no, and the first thing she says is, "well I can't take that burden, you have to go stay with your parents" and then she brings up my school loan that she helped me get and once the baby comes they are going to put a lien against her house, how if she knew the father I wouldn't have gotten pregnant, how if she had known in advance that my mother was pregnant (with my bff and older sister) that she would have made her get an abortion...and all other sorts of stuff that is just really upsetting. On top of that, she knows that I have had some vaginal bleeding and the doctor said it's partly due to stress and worrying; so what does she do? She tells me that my baby and I are virtually homeless! But then she ends the tirade with, "I just care about you all so much" WTF?!?!?!?!
She got pregnant with my eldest uncle out of wedlock, so you think she would be more understanding...I'm mad and very sad because I would have thought my Granny would be supportive. But apparently, she's not.
She got pregnant with my eldest uncle out of wedlock, so you think she would be more understanding...I'm mad and very sad because I would have thought my Granny would be supportive. But apparently, she's not.
