Hi Mamas,
I am having a vba2c in October and have been speaking with hospitals and midwives. So far I had no midwives willing to attend me after contacting several in my area. We ended up speaking with the head of obstetrics at the major hospital in our area. She was incredibly supportive. She gave us the latest research and statistics and told us there is no reason why we should not have a TOL and that she believed we would have a successful vbac. I will have continual wireless monitoring if I labor there, but will have free movement and access to birthing ball and tub. My two previous pregnancies went to 41 w 10 days and 42w. When we discussed this she said they would recommend induction after 41 weeks. I was shocked and said I thought that induction made vbac much riskier. She explained that they only do it after 41 weeks and that of course this is only a suggestion. She emphatically explained that this is MY birth and all choices are up to my husband and I. She said we will not be pressured and assured us that no one there would be surprised to see a woman laboring after 2 previous cesareans. All of this left my husband and I a bit dumbfounded. We were expecting the exact opposite of what occurred.
I do not want to be negative or cynical but I want to be realistic and prepared. With my second child we were very naive about the support we would get with a hospital vbac; fromt the minute I showed up in labor I was treated like I was as fragile as glass. I was put into bed, monitored and had people hovering over me inducing fear into every minute of my labor. We were treated like we were doing something very dangerous and wrong. It was awful and eventually we succumbed to another cesarean. Looking back I realize that the decision was made out of completely unfounded fear. It was "what if.." and "nothing has gone wrong, yet. Lets get her out before something happens."
So, Is it possible that we will experience this kind of support at a major hospital? Does anyone have any experience like this? Should we be skeptical? Any insight is appreciated!
I am having a vba2c in October and have been speaking with hospitals and midwives. So far I had no midwives willing to attend me after contacting several in my area. We ended up speaking with the head of obstetrics at the major hospital in our area. She was incredibly supportive. She gave us the latest research and statistics and told us there is no reason why we should not have a TOL and that she believed we would have a successful vbac. I will have continual wireless monitoring if I labor there, but will have free movement and access to birthing ball and tub. My two previous pregnancies went to 41 w 10 days and 42w. When we discussed this she said they would recommend induction after 41 weeks. I was shocked and said I thought that induction made vbac much riskier. She explained that they only do it after 41 weeks and that of course this is only a suggestion. She emphatically explained that this is MY birth and all choices are up to my husband and I. She said we will not be pressured and assured us that no one there would be surprised to see a woman laboring after 2 previous cesareans. All of this left my husband and I a bit dumbfounded. We were expecting the exact opposite of what occurred.
I do not want to be negative or cynical but I want to be realistic and prepared. With my second child we were very naive about the support we would get with a hospital vbac; fromt the minute I showed up in labor I was treated like I was as fragile as glass. I was put into bed, monitored and had people hovering over me inducing fear into every minute of my labor. We were treated like we were doing something very dangerous and wrong. It was awful and eventually we succumbed to another cesarean. Looking back I realize that the decision was made out of completely unfounded fear. It was "what if.." and "nothing has gone wrong, yet. Lets get her out before something happens."
So, Is it possible that we will experience this kind of support at a major hospital? Does anyone have any experience like this? Should we be skeptical? Any insight is appreciated!










