A loooooooong update, in bits and pieces

To start, the facts.
Wednesday night I started getting the first hints of mastitis. Rest, vit C and garlic didn't touch it thursday, and so I got an Rx for abx (clindamycin) friday afternoon, and finally got the first dose around midnight that night. I'm alternating doses (4x/day) with probiotics - mostly culturelle which is straight acidophilus, I think. The most likely cause is/was dehydration, and I've been struggling to rehydrate (still not there) ever since. My supply took a major hit, and my peak temp reading (which I don't really trust) was 104.
Friday we left for BIL's wedding, 2 hours away with no traffic or babies. Ds hated the drive, and didn't really sleep from 2:30-11pm. Happy 2 month bday! While gone, we mostly ate out, as safely as possible. We decided that would be less stressful than packing food, even though I react to restaurant food almost all the time. I brought vitamins, but mostly forgot them on friday and saturday, and only got some on sunday/monday. Enzymes included. Normally, skipping vitamins totally knocks me out and I feel it first with insomnia/stress/depression.
We were surrounded by extended family and dd was overwhelmed and shy about it (like always) but totally warmed up and enjoyed it by the end (like always).
Dd got very little sleep - 1hr car naps at 5 or 6 would keep her up till 11 or 12 each night. Dd decided she wanted to try the cheese pizza at buca di beppo (!!!) on saturday, and ate 3 pieces. She has dark circles under her eyes, stayed up super late, and wet the bed sat/sun/mon nights. According to dh, poop has been 'immaculate,' even by my standards, but I don't trust he knows my standards

She did complain of her tummy hurting, but *sometimes* that just means 'I have poo poo.'
Ds is just now pooping for the first time since wednesday or thursday morning (it's tuesday), and has been pretty unhappy about it the last week. A bunch of cradle cap showed up over the course of a day or two (it first registered to me on monday). He was pretty much perma-attached to the boob if I was anywhere nearby. No spitting up at all except after lots of milk in bed sunday morning.
We ate thai food, hotel bacon/eggs, buca di beppo, (not raw) goat yogurt (me, just sat night), wedding buffet (verified safe), and mexican food). My mood stayed stable and the insomnia was way less than it should/could have been (we were also exhausted).