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Should I take 10.5 mo old out of bed if he gets his second wind?

post #1 of 6
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The past month or so, it takes anywhere from 1-2 hours to get my DS to sleep.

We co-sleep (DH is in the spare bedroom these days) and I always have to nurse him to sleep and wait for him to fall asleep before I leave. I wait for his tired signals (yawning, eye rubbing, fussiness) and I get him into bed to nurse usually within 10 min by the time his diaper is changed, etc. The past 2-3 months though, he seems to get his second wind and will end up wanting to play instead of sleep after nursing. He'll roll back and forth, and just the other day, he learned how to get on all fours, so now he does that, and he just started rocking somewhat tonight. He finally fell asleep after 90 min!

It's hard for me to stay in bed that long when it's the only time I have to get things done, as I also have to lay down with him to get him to nap during the day.


He also usually wakes crying every 1-2 hours, which he has done for months.
It doesn't matter whether he has had good naps during the day or not. Also, he will whimper while he's trying to fall asleep, like he's struggling to fall asleep.

Not sure what to do or whether it has to do anything with him reaching milestones like crawling, which he just started a month ago, and getting up on all fours, though that doesn't explain all these months of him doing it.

If I can see that he is not going to sleep after nursing, should I take him out of bed and let him play in the living room, so that he doesn't associate the bed with play? He only has a miniature stuffed toy bear and pacifier he chews on in bed. The only thing is that I never know when he's going to tucker out, and sometimes he just rolls over and falls asleep, seemingly wide awake one minute and asleep the next, so if I take him out of bed, that won't happen. On the other hand, maybe more crawling around will tire him out more quickly too.
post #2 of 6
Before ds2 was mobile, we stayed in bed. I had hoped he'd learn that once it's "bedtime" it's not play time anymore. Now that he's mobile, uh, yeah. It's WAYYYY too much work to try to keep him in bed. He crawls to the foot of the bed, I bring him back to the head, lather rinse repeat 50 times.
I do try for a little bit, and if he still seems tired, I do push it a little more. Sometimes I get lucky and he goes to sleep. Other times he gets mad and cries, and we get up.

I guess my point is that if ds is getting mobile, you may not have an option soon anyway! I have no real advice, because our sleep situation sucks- I'm totally not qualified to give advice about sleep! Just basically wanted to commiserate.
post #3 of 6
I'd try putting him down a little earlier--figure out what time on the clock he usually starts those sleepy signs, then start your bedtime routine twenty minutes before that.
Other than that, I wouldn't get up. We coslept with my DD but also had a crib, and if she wouldn't participate in the going to sleep (like lay down and be still) I'd leave her by herself in the crib for a while until she got sleepier. (I don't mean crying--she'd just sit in the crib and chatter or sort of flop around). Once she started making fussy noises then I knew she'd finally gotten back into a sleepy place, and I'd come in and lay back down with her in the bed.
post #4 of 6
If I can tell that DD (almost 10 months) is not ready for sleep yet (rolling and climbing around while or after nursing) I just get back out of bed and let her play while I do whatever I need to do and then try again in about 30 minutes or sooner if she starts acting really tired. I don't see the point in trying to keep her in bed as we both just end up frustrated. Usually she just needs a little more time to unwind then she goes right to sleep.
post #5 of 6
I'm having similar problems. What seems to help for me is to put DD to bed before I actually expect her to fall asleep. It's really really dark and she crawls and rolls around until she gets bored. Yes, this takes upwards of an hour. THEN, nurse her when she was a little hungrier and could eat more and for longer time.

I found that she would nurse, be full, and then not want to sleep, and I couldn't nurse her down again because she was so full. And then she would never go to bed.
post #6 of 6
10 mo DS also does this sometimes. He is definitely tired, though, but will crawl around the bed if he turns over on his tummy. Sometimes just holding him on his back, he will stay asleep. Otherwise I get up and rock him and he's out in less than 10 min (typically).
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