I just want to know if I'm pregnant or not! geeze!!!!!!!!

[othersomethings]

11 out of 11 BFN. But even though my cycle has been wonky, even by my longest (33d) I've ever had, I'm 3 days late. And by the cycle I had last month, (28d) I'm 8 days late.

My boobs are sore. I'm tired. I'm getting headaches. Frequent-ish urination.

COME ON ALREADY!!!!!!

I think a blood test might work but I'd be crazy figuring out how to pay for it...which is an underlying issue on the whole "might be pregnant thing" anyway. I don't want a UC or even a home birth, but without $$ that could well be what I end up with.

Sorry mammas, just needed to vent somewhere.

I hope I am pregnant. The timing is horrible but I Hope I am.

Stupid pregnancy tests.

[lovebeingamomma]

If you were really that late and pregnant, the pregnancy tests would be positive. I know the feeling of wanting to be pregnant so badly. Stress and a billion other things can effect your cycles, you could even be having a non-ovulatory cycle which would make it longer. I wouldn't go for a blood test if I were you if the tests you're taking are negative. If you continue not having a period a month from now, then I would go. But that's me.

I see you've had two losses, I just had my second...sucks. sorry mama.

[MacKinnon]

Are you getting negative urine tests? This wait is hard, I know! I also had late positive tests, due to ovulating late in the cycle, but I wasn't temping/charting then so I didn't know. If you don't have insurance, and would prefer a hospital birth and an attended pregnancy, I would look into seeing if you qualify for your state's insurance plan for pregnant women and children. Typically, as soon as you are pregnant you can qualify, usually they will do a urine or blood test to "prove" you are pregnant, and then enroll you. How it's implemented varies from state to state, but there should be some program, if you qualify financially. You could try posting in finding your tribe to see if someone is familiar with the program in your state. Best of luck!

[TheDivineMrsM]

Originally Posted by othersomethings

11 out of 11 BFN. But even though my cycle has been wonky, even by my longest (33d) I've ever had, I'm 3 days late. And by the cycle I had last month, (28d) I'm 8 days late.

My boobs are sore. I'm tired. I'm getting headaches. Frequent-ish urination.

COME ON ALREADY!!!!!!

I think a blood test might work but I'd be crazy figuring out how to pay for it...which is an underlying issue on the whole "might be pregnant thing" anyway. I don't want a UC or even a home birth, but without $$ that could well be what I end up with.

Sorry mammas, just needed to vent somewhere.

I hope I am pregnant. The timing is horrible but I Hope I am.

Stupid pregnancy tests.

Are you temping? My temps tipped my off that I should go pick up a test.

Fx or you!

[emmalizz]

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[darkblue0729]

I'm not trying to give you false hope, but I didn't test positive with my DD2 for 2 1/2 -3 weeks, I had sore breasts, exhaustion, nausea, the whole nine...they drew blood and everything, had me scheduled for a D&C for cysts and it wasn't until the day before the procedure when they did the bloodwork at the hospital that they discovered I was pregnant, went for an ultrasound and sure enough I was 5 weeks pregnant.

[othersomethings]

Thnx mamas, this is just driving me nuts.

I don't temp...I chart but temping has been the step I haven't made yet.

I've tried different brands, methods, etc. Wasted all me FR tests, back to $ store tests cause I feel like i'm wasting them, one a day, lol...

With my previous pregnancies the testing was never an issue. Even before I was late I got a BFP. I also know I ovulated cause it was one of those that hurt.

So I guess just wait. If it's a cyst, I don't know what to do. But I'm really hoping for a positive test one of these days.

[CherryBomb]

If you're three to eight days late and still getting BFNs, it's unlikely that you're pregnant. Though it's not out of the realm of possibility, depending on when ovulation and conception occured. I'd wait a week and if my period hadn't started, test again, and if it were negative, then I'd do a blood test to be sure.