Anyways, only I am the mostly one who watching the kids outside all the time sometimes later when other parents bring their kids out they are watching them which is only about 2 of the other parents otherwise its just me .
So then I'm like hmm I'm the one whose trying to get them to not throw sand, rocks, get into parking lots, make sure kids don't make messes if they do they clean it up, make sure they don't litter and handling outbursts of tantrums for kids calling names ,throwing things because they aren't getting their way .
Well, I said lets make a compromise because C didn't want to share with T . C didn't want to compromise so T has a major fit that he started to throw the things of what he wasn't getting shared with which was a big trike that I don't know why older kids would want to ride a baby bike but they did want too & they were from my neighbors who have 2 yr old twins .
T was swinging that trike around hitting all the kids and throwing it at them and i was so afraid that the trike would accidentally swing into the sandbox and hit my son & his friends.
So since our kid area has been increasing with tempermental kids that have huge fits that are gradeschool wise . Some teenagers are getting attitudes and having some swearing due to their parents have quite a mouth of words .
These kids are out of control and even some teens even drink/smoke etc
So even that 6 yr old that had such a violent outbursts that he was throwing things that would hurt people/kids
So I spoke to the school counselor suggested to him that maybe he could end up helping suggest a way to get kids to handle emotions when they don't get their way because some of the kids that go to B's school will be also our neighbors kids that need to share toys if they are allowed to be used by other neighbors .
So he said yes I will go in and suggest some ways how they can do that etc
So if kids are older & not sharing again so in hopes to avoid a younger kid whose blowing up becoming a danger to others how should I end up acting if compromises don't work
So then I'm like hmm I'm the one whose trying to get them to not throw sand, rocks, get into parking lots, make sure kids don't make messes if they do they clean it up, make sure they don't litter and handling outbursts of tantrums for kids calling names ,throwing things because they aren't getting their way .
Well, I said lets make a compromise because C didn't want to share with T . C didn't want to compromise so T has a major fit that he started to throw the things of what he wasn't getting shared with which was a big trike that I don't know why older kids would want to ride a baby bike but they did want too & they were from my neighbors who have 2 yr old twins .
T was swinging that trike around hitting all the kids and throwing it at them and i was so afraid that the trike would accidentally swing into the sandbox and hit my son & his friends.
So since our kid area has been increasing with tempermental kids that have huge fits that are gradeschool wise . Some teenagers are getting attitudes and having some swearing due to their parents have quite a mouth of words .
These kids are out of control and even some teens even drink/smoke etc
So even that 6 yr old that had such a violent outbursts that he was throwing things that would hurt people/kids
So I spoke to the school counselor suggested to him that maybe he could end up helping suggest a way to get kids to handle emotions when they don't get their way because some of the kids that go to B's school will be also our neighbors kids that need to share toys if they are allowed to be used by other neighbors .
So he said yes I will go in and suggest some ways how they can do that etc
So if kids are older & not sharing again so in hopes to avoid a younger kid whose blowing up becoming a danger to others how should I end up acting if compromises don't work
