We are in the process of adopting two girls from Uganda. We've just finished one of the adoptions. We ended up bringing our three biological sons who are 2, 4 and 6 to Uganda with us for almost 6 weeks this March and April. Overall, it was a great experience.
We are slow/selective vaxers normally, but for this trip we went ahead and did was the infectious medicine doctors suggested. We had them take malarone. At first, as they didn't know how to swallow pills, we would hide the pills in a jelly bean and they would chew up. After we ran out of jelly beans and couldn't find more in Uganda, the boys learned how to swallow pills. We brought along antibiotics for tummy troubles or other infections. We brought bug spray - the California Baby spray with is natural and mild enough to use frequently, a lemon-eucalyptus spray that smelled bad was not unsafe, and deet to put on feet and ankles where mosquitos seemed to be the worst.
We brought sunscreen, wide brimmed hats and clothing with built in SPF for most days. We went swimming one cloudy day and the boys ended up with bad burns. Wear sunscreen even when its cloudy!!
We packed very lightly - each boy had 2 pairs of pants, 1 long sleeve shirt, 3 tee shirts, 3 pairs of underwear and 1 swimsuit. If we come back, I would bring a little more as they were often filthy. Just one more change of clothes would have been good. Also, it was colder than we expected on rainy days.
In our six weeks, we were careful with water. We bought bottled water most of the time and put it in stainless steel bottles for the boys to drink. We washed these in hot soapy water and then filled with boiling water to sanitize every day or two. We were careful when the kids were bathing and brushing teeth to keep dirty water out of their mouths.
The good:
-Our boys loved many things about Africa!! We had great adventures as a family, including a safari and rafting on the nile river.
-The boys learned a lot about their sister's culture and enjoyed trying new foods, learning words and songs in Luganda, playing drums, etc.
-They loved playing with kids and learned what it was like to be different from most of the people around them. They loved playing football with other boys especially! They also loved just getting dirty and playing for hours and hours outside each day.
-Tons of new experiences - everything from swimming in the nile river to eating ants. Awesome.
The hard:
-Each of our boys had a stomach but 1-2 times. This was the hardest on our younger boys who couldn't quite make it to the toilet to throw up each time. The sicknesses were fairly mild and over quickly.
-One of our boys got a bad ear infection and had to go to the doctor. LONG waits there.
-One of our boys was like a bug magnet and got lots of bites and then scratched his bites until they were bleeding and infected. He ended up on antibiotics for that.
-Another one of our boys tried to be like his African friends and not wear shoes but ended up with cuts on the bottom of his feet. Again not a big deal, but painful for a couple days.
-Spending all day in hot sun is exhausting, especially for kids from Seattle. We found it was difficult for the boys to get enough sleep and they were often cranky.
I'm very glad we brought the boys here to Uganda. If it was just for fun, I think I would wait until the youngest was at least 5-6, but since our trip had a purpose and we wanted our boys to get to know their sisters in their home country, I think overall it was worth it!
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