In CT it is ALL or NOTHING. So.. you either have to have a pedi who will keep any vaxes given a secret, or fudge your health forms if you are planning to selectively vax.
You could find a second pedi, who you pay out of pocket, to give the vaxes you want and tell your main pedi that you are not vaxing at all and have them fill out the health forms accordingly. Of course, if there was a measles outbreak at the school and your child was told they could not come to school for several months until all known cases were cleared, you would have to keep quiet about your child having actually received the vax or risk being in legal trouble. I'm guessing you could also be in legal trouble for knowingly lying to the school about the vaxes, too, if they ever found out, but you should check on that.
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