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Hey mamas...am I doing this right?

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DS is 22 months. I'm not sure if he's noticing "the feeling" and I'm really confused as to whether he is ready or not for potty learning.

He started asking to "go go" on the potty a few weeks ago, when he read about it in a book. And now, when I bring him to the potty, 80 percent of the time he pees.

I had him in pull ups, but I don't think he noticed the difference between those and a diaper. He goes in his pull ups all the time without asking to "go go".

He's been naked in the mornings for about a week now. I put him in diapers during the late afternoon because we have to run errands and such. When he's naked, he sometimes goes without even noticing it until after he starts peeing. And then there are the times he asks to "go go" and nothing happens when he gets on the potty.

When I don't remind him, he usually does not ask to go, but most days he does ask in the morning when he wakes up and at night before bed. He used to ask during the day.

As you can see, there are times when I feel he's not ready, and times when I feel he is definitely ready.

Its hard for me to gage because I've never done this before and because you don't want to push them - yet you wonder if they just need a little encouragement or training to give them that extra nudge in the right direction.

I would really appreciate any input or opinions/ thoughts from you seasoned mamas who have done this before...
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I preschool teacher I know refers to the feeling to urinate as - that feeling in your tummy when you have to potty. She also makes a point to remind the child that only s/he can know that feeling, it's all theirs, and that they should let mommy (whomever) know so they can get them in the potty in time. Helps to give htem ownership of the process. My little guy beams when I say, remember, mommy can't know when you get that feeling, only you can.
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I'm in the same boat. My 2 1/2 year old is very haphazard about potty use. He holds it in a lot, but seems to think of the toilet as a toy... sometimes he wants to go, sometimes not.

I'm not doing anything too structured right now. We were doing naked time at home, but he frequently pooped - and the last time it was not all that solid. Soooo, no more of that. He gets too into playing and then - poop. We bought some undies, and he was thrilled. Still peed in them, but only a bit, said "I leaked!" and used the potty. However, it was hard to find such a small size, and the one I did was $8 for a 3 pack. Too expensive!
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I preschool teacher I know refers to the feeling to urinate as - that feeling in your tummy when you have to potty. She also makes a point to remind the child that only s/he can know that feeling, it's all theirs, and that they should let mommy (whomever) know so they can get them in the potty in time. Helps to give htem ownership of the process. My little guy beams when I say, remember, mommy can't know when you get that feeling, only you can.
Thanks, vrclay.. that's a good way to explain it to children, but I'm not sure my DS language skills are advanced enough for me to get him to understand that there is a specific feeling. I do think he knows the feeling sporadically, but Im not sure how I would explain that the feeling is always the same and so on...

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Originally Posted by Lit Chick View Post
I'm in the same boat. My 2 1/2 year old is very haphazard about potty use. He holds it in a lot, but seems to think of the toilet as a toy... sometimes he wants to go, sometimes not.

I'm not doing anything too structured right now. We were doing naked time at home, but he frequently pooped - and the last time it was not all that solid. Soooo, no more of that. He gets too into playing and then - poop. We bought some undies, and he was thrilled. Still peed in them, but only a bit, said "I leaked!" and used the potty. However, it was hard to find such a small size, and the one I did was $8 for a 3 pack. Too expensive!
We have had some yucky experiences with poop too! We tried the underwear and he hates them just as much as he hates diapers. He couldn't keep them dry unless I was asking him every half hour "do you have to go-go?".

I guess what I'm getting at is maybe I should hold off for a while and just wait for him to get to the point where he is 100% ready... or maybe he IS ready and just needs a little prompting. I don't want to mess this up and have him in diapers until hes 5
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