I'm not sure how to work this out, and I feel like a simple answer is probably staring me in the face, but I can't see it. Our situation:
18 month old DC who sleeps in our bed part of the night. We don't want to change that.
Our next baby is due in May, and our bed is a tempur pedic queen; I do not feel comfortable having a newborn in our bed between us because of DD, and because the bed holds so much heat; plus, we like our pillows and blankets.
My solution was a snugglenest, but we can't all fit in the bed with it! An arms reach cosleeper was my next idea, but I know I'll fall asleep nursing and the baby will be in our bed.
The only thing I can think is if dh and DD sleep on the couch (it's big and comfy, and they fall asleep out there often), and use the snugglenest for the baby. I really don't want that though.
After a couple months, I'll be fine with all of us in the same bed, if DD hasn't transitioned fully to her bed (we're in no rush). But at first, I'm really nervous sleeping in bed with a newborn; with DD, we actually took turns sleeping on the floor with her for the first 6 weeks!
Any ideas would be appreciated, thanks!
Edit: Our bedroom is too cramped to bring the crib in and sidecar it.
18 month old DC who sleeps in our bed part of the night. We don't want to change that.
Our next baby is due in May, and our bed is a tempur pedic queen; I do not feel comfortable having a newborn in our bed between us because of DD, and because the bed holds so much heat; plus, we like our pillows and blankets.
My solution was a snugglenest, but we can't all fit in the bed with it! An arms reach cosleeper was my next idea, but I know I'll fall asleep nursing and the baby will be in our bed.
The only thing I can think is if dh and DD sleep on the couch (it's big and comfy, and they fall asleep out there often), and use the snugglenest for the baby. I really don't want that though.
After a couple months, I'll be fine with all of us in the same bed, if DD hasn't transitioned fully to her bed (we're in no rush). But at first, I'm really nervous sleeping in bed with a newborn; with DD, we actually took turns sleeping on the floor with her for the first 6 weeks!

Any ideas would be appreciated, thanks!
Edit: Our bedroom is too cramped to bring the crib in and sidecar it.








