I have a 28 month old and 4 month old. Dh has been going through some tough times and through it all has decided that he doesn't have feelings for me and wants to separate. I am consulting with an attorney who forwarded me recommended guidelines for custody for such young kids. They pretty much recommend a 50/50 split. I really want what is best for the kids, but I did not ask for this divorce. I want to stay and support DH and try to work things out (despite him being a complete jerk lately), but because he decides that he wants out (after I just had his baby, nonetheless), I have to lose having my babies around half the time, too? He is a good father to them, but I am so completely sad that I will not be able to be around my kids all the time now. He is also planning to hire an au pair, so probably half the time they are with him he won't even be the one paying attention to them. How is this fair?!?
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4/22/10 at 8:07pm