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Originally Posted by jenfl 
Oh! I got my first ever formula sample in the mail yesterday!  Since DD was a homebirth, none of the companies ever got my address. But DS's visit to the NICU must have put us in the system, and out of the blue some Enfamil showed up. I jokingly gave it to DH, who took it right out to the trash can. He's also going to call them and give them a piece of his mind, I believe. That should be an interesting conversation to overhear.
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All my kids were homebirths, but somehow they always get our address.

We donate it to the local food bank*. DH has learned not even to jokingly put them out on the kitchen counter, because I end up going off on a tangent about aggressive marketing, etc. He probably stands behind me and mouths the words while i rant, he's heard it so many times.

Did you read the little book they send along? It plays along with "breast is best", but somehow stresses how hard it is, and how a "strong mom" will always have a backup plan. I read it while pooping one day, which felt suiting. I have a backup plan for that book! heh.
* Realistically, I know that low income mothers are less likely to have an extended maternity leave, and are more likely to go back to jobs which do not encourage pumping. I wish those babies could be exclusively breastfed, and so do their mamas, but shelter>ideals, and formula is sometimes a (very expensive) necessity.
As for us - I think i just have really low expectations for my newborns, because while she wakes up constantly, wants to be held any time she is awake, is gassy/fussy at 3am, won't go to anyone else (including DH) for mroe than 30 seconds, etc, I just don't expect anything else

I can't say I enjoy all of those things, but i think having a 2 year old who still wakes up, wants to be held, and is always hysterical about some invisible owie makes it easy to accept how little and helpless Becky is. (And now that I think about it, i want all of those things as well, I just don't have my mama here.

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3 weeks out and still bleeding. It will taper off for a few days, and then I'll do something wild and crazy like give the big girls a bath, and then we're back to red blood. Other than that, I'm pretty much back to normal. I reallyreallyreally want to start yoga/walking again, so I'm trying to be patient with the bleeding, but GAH. Just stop.