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Originally Posted by chickabiddy 
I'm 41 and 5'5" and don't pass in all cars: it's very rare that a 7yo would pass consistently. Kids who don't pass need to be in boosters to protect themselves -- adults have a little more leeway because they have mature hipbones to hold the lapbelt down and prevent seatbelt syndrome.
ETA that my 8yo is in a highbacked booster 99.95% of the time and a backless booster the other 0.05%.
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This. I'm 5'1" (61") and I am fine in my Subaru Outback wagon, but I used to have an old Plymouth Gran Fury in which I could not see over the dashboard unless I sat on pillows or phone books

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Originally Posted by jake&zaxmom 
DS1 will be 10 on June 1 and he's still in a booster. To the best of my understanding, to be safest in a seatbelt alone they are supposed to be able to sit all the way back in the seat and have the bend of their knees be at or past the edge of the seat so that their feet can be flat on the floor. DS1 isn't able to do that in the car that we drive the most. (He can do it in our truck and does not use a booster in that vehicle) Here in North Carolina, I think it's legal to ditch the booster when the child is 4'10" and 80 lbs OR 8 years old.
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I'm in NC, too. I've seen mixed things about what is correct and what isn't, as far as laws go. Here in Asheville, there are lots of billboards that say "4'9" is the law" but then I've heard the 8/80 rule, too.
Your "understanding" is a good indicator, I think! I haven't heard that till I read this thread.
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Originally Posted by blessedwithboys 
ftr, i am pretty much the only booster seat user i know. a friend just let her kindy boy ditch his, and it became an issue when they had to ride in my car and i made her dig it out of her garage or they couldnt come with me.
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Yep, that would be me, too. I don't let adults ride with me unless they buckle, nor do I let kids ride w/o a booster, no matter what the rules are in their parents' cars.
It amazes me when parents say things like "he just won't stay in the booster" or "refuses to"...hey, sorry, but who makes the rules? I know it's not a Mothering standard, generally, but in no way am I going to compromise, or practice consensual anything, when it comes to safety.
Well, I'm not a consensual mom anyway, but even if I were. Not for safety issues.
My ds is 9y3m, is 4'4" and 59lb. Very tall and skinny, but no way tall enough for a belt alone. He's in a HBB. I think it's a Graco (forgot

), the one with the memory foam seat and the place where you anchor the belt at the child's shoulder area. We do road trips and no way could or would he sit for a whole trip like it says in the post with the 5 stipulations.
I can't remember when we ditched the 5-point, but he was way old compared to other kids his age. I ditched it when the head rest wouldn't go any higher for his height.
He uses a LBB in other people's cars, but I just scored another HBB for carpooling (free, even!)

Suffice it to say, he'll be in that dang booster, in whoever's car, till he's 4'9" at least. He's always going to be skinny and I doubt he'll hit 80lb till he's at least 12 or more!
Thankfully, he's very safety-minded, plus doesn't care what other people say, so yay.
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