I had my appt. today and confirmed that it's hospital policy to induce all VBACs.
I'm devasted. I have no other options at this point, this is the only hospital within an hour of us that will even entertain the idea of a VBAC, and homebirth is out of the question for several reasons.
I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to just sign up for the repeat cection, because I feel with an induction I am doomed to fail. (DS1 was a cection after induction for "size" and 12 hours of labor with no progress. I was far less informed then and had a poor support system. I feel like my mistakes two years ago are going to haunt me the rest of my child bearing life, and I feel so depressed and sad all over again.)
I know the best thing is to do the best I can within the bounds of their policies, fighting what I can (like constant fetal monitoring so I can move around). But I'm at a loss as to what else I can do to increase my 50% chance of a successful vaginal birth. I plan on starting RRL tea soon. Should I entertain natural methods of induction the days before my hospital induction? Should I ask for a certain method?
I guess I'm looking for a shoulder to cry on, and some advice on how to make the best of this.
I'm devasted. I have no other options at this point, this is the only hospital within an hour of us that will even entertain the idea of a VBAC, and homebirth is out of the question for several reasons.I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to just sign up for the repeat cection, because I feel with an induction I am doomed to fail. (DS1 was a cection after induction for "size" and 12 hours of labor with no progress. I was far less informed then and had a poor support system. I feel like my mistakes two years ago are going to haunt me the rest of my child bearing life, and I feel so depressed and sad all over again.)
I know the best thing is to do the best I can within the bounds of their policies, fighting what I can (like constant fetal monitoring so I can move around). But I'm at a loss as to what else I can do to increase my 50% chance of a successful vaginal birth. I plan on starting RRL tea soon. Should I entertain natural methods of induction the days before my hospital induction? Should I ask for a certain method?
I guess I'm looking for a shoulder to cry on, and some advice on how to make the best of this.


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s you have not failed any of your children! We've all been there and done it. For me - it was twice! It sounds like you are starting to put together a plan of what you will allow in your healthcare and not. I agree with declining the U/S at 39 weeks - many folks don't hold stock in them.
Good Luck. I'll keep you in my prayers.
wish you a wonderful, healing VBAC
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