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Need help with neighbor's kitten

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My neighbors got a kitten a couple of weeks ago for their girls, who are 2.5 and 4. It's about 10 weeks old, so still very small. We live in the city, on a block of rowhouses. They are three doors down, but still very close. Since they brought it home, I have often heard it crying to get in their back door, I see it crying on their front steps when I walk by, it has cried to be let into my back door, etc. Right now it's sitting on my lap because it was stuck on my roof at 5:30 this morning. I climbed out there and brought him in and now I don't know what to do. He was obviously out all night and it was cold!

I've brought him over there before, trying to gently suggest that he might not be ready to be outdoors on his own (though I think he should never be outdoors...), but they obviously didn't hear it or didn't agree. I don't think it will go over well if I were more blunt than that - people around here take very strongly to being told what to do. He has no collar and I doubt he is microchipped. We have lots of pretty tough cats around here, stray dogs and rats and lord knows what else. This kitten wouldn't stand a chance against any of them.

Part of me wants to bring him to the shelter, but another part of me (and a good friend) think that if the cat's being fed that's better than life for a lot of cats. I think I have to put him outside soon, though I really hate to, because DS will be waking up and he gets really excited about the kitten - too excited - and I don't want anyone to get hurt. I know this will keep happening, and I'm not sure what to do.
post #2 of 5
Have a friend whose neighbors poorly cared for a kitten/cat.The animal was over at my friends more than the owners.In the end my friend found a better home for the cat. Ofcourse never mentioned it to the neighbors.That is what I would recommend.Keep and rehome.It deserves a better life.They might or might not get a new pet.If new pet ends up at your place keep and rehome.Outdoor animals vanish all the time.No need to let them know you rehomed it.
post #3 of 5
yup, find a new home for the kitten and next time it cries at your door, take it to its new indoor home.
post #4 of 5
Stealing someone's pet is wrong. For all you know, the family loves their cat and would be heartbroken if it was stolen.

You've made a gentle suggestion about how to care for the kitten. They chose not to take your suggestion. If the kitten is being fed and watered, I would probably bring him back to the neighbours' yard whenever I found him, and offer another gentle suggestion.

While I strongly disagree with letting a very small kitten outside, I've known many extremely happy indoor/outdoor cats. My cats are indoor, but as long as it's not illegal, this isn't your choice to make. If this kitten survives, he may well grow into a happy indoor/outdoor cat.
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My neighbor did the exact same thing. Brought home two 8wk old kittens and left them outside. After a few days, one went missing and the other kept getting stuck in my bushes. He followed me home and snuck in the doggy door. The next morning some girls at the bus stop found him stuck in the drain and brought him over to my door asking if he was mine. I took him in and made a vet visit that same day. Later on, I informed our neighbor of the situation and he was actually very glad we were giving kitty a home. He said he got the kittens, but had some unexpected $ issues and couldn't take care of them anymore.

If they wanted the cat, they would take care of it. Keep it or find it a new home. Kittens that age don't last long outside . It's not fair to you to have to deal with their animal always crying because no one it caring for it. Baby animals need more care than food and water, so if they are not providing that care then they are not fit to keep the cat. Even if the cat survives...in a few months if it's a female and not spayed, you will have even more problems to deal with!
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