My dad died last year and left us a house full. It wasn't fair to us or to my mom. To be fair, he had always said he would declutter before he died, but he died a year after being diagnosed very unexpectedly with cancer. And he did declutter a little tiny bit before his second surgery...but I'm glad he didn't do too much, it was too much like giving up. If you can bring up the subject tactfully, I would. My mom is trying her best to clean things up so that she doesn't leave that much for us.
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5/8/10 at 2:05am