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post #21 of 28
When my dd had bangs they grew so fast they were always in her eyes which drove her nuts so she would cut her hair. Also, her hair has tons of cowlicks, all in the front, so if we cut the bangs too short then they would stand straight up. Now DD doesn't have bangs. Her hair is all one length and she puts it behind her ears. She mentions having bangs again, but the cowlicks really make it so hard to get the right length without having them drive her nuts.
post #22 of 28
We've had both. When dd1 was younger we tried growing out her hair but she did not like any fussing with her hair. Her bangs grow straight into her face and her hair is very, very straight and fine but lots of it. We ended up giving her a bob with bangs when she was about 3 I think. I thought it looked very cute. Now she's almost 5 and has decided to grow her bangs out. They are just starting to get in her eyes so she wears a lot of soft headbands. My youngest dd has longish bangs that will hopefully be able to be tucked behind her ears soon. Right now we usually just put them in a pony on top of her head.

I think it depends a lot on hair texture and how it grows.
post #23 of 28
I won't cut bangs on DD as I had the dora cut as a kid and hated it. Growing them out was a mojor PITA. DD wears her hair in pigtails (fairly long hair for a 19mth old). I do her hair while she's eating breakfast in her booster so she is distracted. It's perfectly neat but it keepsit out of her eyes and looks cute.
post #24 of 28
I'm not anti-bangs, but I've chosen to go through the growing-out process once while DD is young instead of having to do it (if she wants to) when she's older and may get more frustrated by it. I also just like the look of no bangs -- I've only had bangs myself once (in 5th grade) and didn't like them at all and didn't like having to wait forever for them to grow out. If DD ever asks for bangs, I won't have a problem taking her to get some cut, but for now the no-bangs look is what works for us.
post #25 of 28
I use firm hold hair gel to keep DD's hair out of her eyes. If I try a clip or hair tie Her twin brother will pull it out and hurt her.
post #26 of 28
My DD has a prominent vein on her forehead so she has bangs.

http://i33.photobucket.com/albums/d7...H/IMG_2532.jpg

Also, her recent self haircut
http://i33.photobucket.com/albums/d7...H/IMG_2461.jpg
post #27 of 28
Bangs can look really cute on little kids.

But.

I spent most of my childhood growing my bangs out in two stages. At the age of, I dunno, eight or so I realised that whoever cut my bang had been cutting further and further back each time, so instead of the bangs being a fringe along the hairline they were this huge triangular wodge of hair starting from practically the back of my head. I think I had more hair in my bangs than in my ponytail! So I grew out the back couple of inches, to make my bangs regular bangs again. Not fine and wispy, just not that horrible triangle of doom.

That took AGES. I had these really ugly clips to push the growing-out bits back and they were always popping out and getting tangled in my hair.

Then when I was 13 I decided not to wear bangs any more at all (coincided with quitting wearing glasses, plus I grew a lot that year, so nobody recognised me the next year!). So again, painful awkward growing-out process. I used a headband that time, which was equally ugly and awkward.

The whole process took YEARS, and I feel like I spent most of my formative years struggling with recalcitrant hair-wrangling devices. So, while I think DD would look cute with bangs, I'm avoiding them just so we don't have to deal with the drama later. Even "mild" bangs, with just a few millimetres'-worth of hair back from the hairline cut into a fringe, tend to creep backwards after multiple cuts until you end up with a chunky fringe.

Plus I had a cowlick, which used to drive me to tears because it would never lie down, so I had this permanent silly loop of hair sticking up on one side of my bangs. When I finally grew my bangs out and the hair started meekly sliding into a ponytail, it was like magic. Bangs + cowlicks = evil.
post #28 of 28
I like bangs. My daughter hates having hair in her face so bangs just work for her. My other daughter loves clips,hair ties etc so we use those. I think it should be up to the child if they want them or not. I do not think they are that hard to grow out as most people have to get them cut every 1 or 2 weeks depending on how fast your hair grows.
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