To whom is may concern,
I know you heard from a neighbor of mine or a friend of a friend that I am a surrogate. I really do appreciate your curiosity and welcome questions to a certain degree.
But friend after awhile it almost seems like I am getting the 3rd degree.
I would like to set the record straight and just do this once, I know I will have to do this 1000 more times during this pregnancy, and more so after and possibly for the rest of my life.
I know it is my job to educate you, I know this isn't something you can understand without asking questions, I respect that, there is a line though, about what you can and cannot ask. When the questions become less about learning and more about some backward view you have, then I feel the need to pull out the inner beast.
No I did NOT have sex to get pregnant.
Yes you can carry and deliver babies that have NO biological link to you.
Why can't they have their own children? They are lacking a uterus, its ok though, they are comfortable with having male genitalia.
No I am NOT worried about the children growing up gay. I don't view being gay as a handicap or a bad thing. From what I have learned through common sense, straight people raise gay children too, otherwise we wouldn't have gay people at all. I am way less worried about the fathers ability to parent their twins then I am about you feeling it is ok to ask this in front of your own children.
No I won't be sad, I am not giving up anything, I am adding to something.
Yes I get compensation, no I don't feel it is baby selling, see above, these children would have never been born if not for the actions of their parents. I am a vessel to help them achieve a goal they dreamed up.
I am off now to go bang my head against a wall.. take care
A Surrogate Carrier.
I know you heard from a neighbor of mine or a friend of a friend that I am a surrogate. I really do appreciate your curiosity and welcome questions to a certain degree.
But friend after awhile it almost seems like I am getting the 3rd degree.
I would like to set the record straight and just do this once, I know I will have to do this 1000 more times during this pregnancy, and more so after and possibly for the rest of my life.
I know it is my job to educate you, I know this isn't something you can understand without asking questions, I respect that, there is a line though, about what you can and cannot ask. When the questions become less about learning and more about some backward view you have, then I feel the need to pull out the inner beast.
No I did NOT have sex to get pregnant.
Yes you can carry and deliver babies that have NO biological link to you.
Why can't they have their own children? They are lacking a uterus, its ok though, they are comfortable with having male genitalia.
No I am NOT worried about the children growing up gay. I don't view being gay as a handicap or a bad thing. From what I have learned through common sense, straight people raise gay children too, otherwise we wouldn't have gay people at all. I am way less worried about the fathers ability to parent their twins then I am about you feeling it is ok to ask this in front of your own children.
No I won't be sad, I am not giving up anything, I am adding to something.
Yes I get compensation, no I don't feel it is baby selling, see above, these children would have never been born if not for the actions of their parents. I am a vessel to help them achieve a goal they dreamed up.
I am off now to go bang my head against a wall.. take care
A Surrogate Carrier.
not in your ddc, but your post made me laugh. I'm sorry you have to be subjected to that....
way to go mama!
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