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post #41 of 370
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Originally Posted by GrapesBunch View Post
Here's another question: If my temp is still high at 13 dpo (Saturday) do I go ahead and test and possibly dash my hopes or risk getting a BFN/AF on Mother's Day (14 dpo Sunday)?
Hm, that's a good question. Looks like you usually have a 14 day lp? That means you'll probably know on Mothers Day? I dunno. Disappointment on Mother's Day would be hard. Then again, a BFP would be great. But that would be great any day of the year...If it were me, I'd probably be testing now. But I'm an obsessive tester.
post #42 of 370
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Hm, that's a good question. Looks like you usually have a 14 day lp? That means you'll probably know on Mothers Day? I dunno. Disappointment on Mother's Day would be hard. Then again, a BFP would be great. But that would be great any day of the year...If it were me, I'd probably be testing now. But I'm an obsessive tester.
I went back and checked my charts. I disregarded one month that I had a 21 day LP but I didn't ovulate that month and had to be put on progesterone...

So out of 11 months charting...one month I had a 12 day LP, six months I had a 13 day LP, two months I had a 14 day LP, and two months I had a 15 day LP...

I also disregarded the temp I took Sunday morning because I had gone back to bed at 3:30 after being up for an hour with tornado sirens going off. makes my chart look better...just wish I knew what happened those two days...
I think by Sunday I should know something...good or bad...
post #43 of 370
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My one clomid cycle resulted in pregancy, and I had screaming high temps, in the 99's. Good luck!!

Afm- I have no infertility coverage on my insurance. To do a fertlity workup - initial visit + hsg + sperm analysis, is nearly $3,000. We've had 3 pregancies in two years. I think it will happen. I'm not sure I'm willing to pay 3K to make it happen faster.
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post #44 of 370
Guys..I'm back. No heartbeat I'm going to take a break frm MDC for a while, otherwise I'll have a nervous breakdown.

You guys make sure Tear gets over to the other side for me
post #45 of 370
Apricot: wow! that is so expensive! before we left the states I had been denied coverage at all (gluten intolerance) and part of why we waited so long to get anything checked out is that we knew we'd be moving and the out of pocket cost was so enormous. good luck to you though... how are you doing?

GrapesBunch: the whole thing is so killer. maddening really!!!! anyhow i'm sending hugs (and a pillow to punch) your way and of course

and ladies, will you please remind me that its ok to have awkward and sort of unromantic ttc sex? for those of you who don't know me, i have some vaginal pain issues that make sex in general a bit more complicated so when it comes to ttc sex, well, the i've started getting in the habit of having some anticipatory anxiety. i mean, you "have" to get the goods where they need to be.... and there isn't a lot of flexibility on that. anyhow, i always thought ttc sex was going to be sooo romantic and fun and exciting... i mean i grew up w/ a sex positive hippie family and am always amazed that i've struggled so much w/ my own feelings about sex...

ok. tmi rant over!! on a positive note we did get in a good go today on cd13 after having ewcm both yesterday and today on good timing this month!!!

oh enigo: i think we cross posted... i'm so so very sorry. i'm sending you huge hugs right now
post #46 of 370
Oh no, enigo. Oh, I am so, so sorry! I am sending you lots of hugs. I've got tears in my eyes.
post #47 of 370
oh my gosh enigo. I am so very sorry. There just aren't words. I wish there were something I could say or do.
post #48 of 370
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Guys..I'm back. No heartbeat I'm going to take a break frm MDC for a while, otherwise I'll have a nervous breakdown.

You guys make sure Tear gets over to the other side for me
Oh No!



Oh, Enigo... big, long tight hug

That breaks my heart. (and I'm just some random chick on the internet!)

Can I do anything for you?
post #49 of 370
Enigo-So sorry to hear! I hope you have some positive time off!
post #50 of 370
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Guys..I'm back. No heartbeat I'm going to take a break frm MDC for a while, otherwise I'll have a nervous breakdown.

You guys make sure Tear gets over to the other side for me
Oh Enigo. No words mama. No words, because there is absolutely nothing I can say that will make it any easier. The universe is being a horrible horrible miserable POS (especially to you over the last year), and I'd like to spit on it for you. I will be thinking about you often, and please please take good care of yourself. You are a resilient lovely wife, mom and friend, especially to all of us who have been going through some of this sh$% with you. And we will continue to be here (I'm sure my ass will definitely still be right here, in this exact same spot) to support and encourage you when you're ready to come back and talk or lurk. Lots and lots of hugs mama .
post #51 of 370
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Enigo- I feel like raging for you. It's not fair. I want to wrap you in a tight hug. Take all the time you need or want. We ll be here whenever you need.
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post #52 of 370
Grapesbunch - fingers and toes crossed for you that this is it!!

enigo - so many hugs, mama. Take a break and heal your heart

jenger - I hope you are feeling better!!

afm - CD7 and I'm almost feeling a little hopeful this month. Never felt that at CD7 before! Going to take it as a positive sign and do lots of BD'ing starting a little early - just in case I O early like I did last month.
post #53 of 370
I dont know what to say so so sorry enigo take care of yourself, take all the time you need, how unfair....
post #54 of 370
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Originally Posted by enigo View Post
Guys..I'm back. No heartbeat I'm going to take a break frm MDC for a while, otherwise I'll have a nervous breakdown.

You guys make sure Tear gets over to the other side for me
Nooooo. No no no...

I'm ... oh god... I'm so sorry....
post #55 of 370
Oh enigo I am so sorry
post #56 of 370
Oh, enigo. : I am so very, very, very sorry. : Take all the time you need.
post #57 of 370
Enigo, I hope you still reading here a little bit. I'm thinking about you and your family. I'm so effing mad about this for you. Nothing rational is going though my head right now, I would just like to give you a great big too long hug and cry together. Anyone who brings wine and/or chocolate is invited.
post #58 of 370
I was on a high this morning all because of a high temp at 11 dpo...but since my average LP is 13 it really means nothing...I've had a bit of cramping in my abdomen this afternoon and I'm pretty much in a funk. How can I go from being convinced I'm pregnant in the morning and by late afternoon like it'll never happen... I can't stand this much longer...
post #59 of 370
Enigo I'm so sorry. Many many hugs to you and your family. GAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!!!!!! IT's NOT FAIR!!!!! I'm angry and sad for you. And frustrated. And sad.

And Lapis, I'm sorry you're having trouble with the pressure of ttc sex. I don't have any advice (other than lube...lube is my friend), but I hope it gets easier for you or that your dh is willing to take the lead during your fertile times with a nice foot rub or something. Hugs.
post #60 of 370
oh thanks carlyle : )

and enigo i've been thinking of you a lot. and just wanted to remind you that all the BSL ladies are with you.
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