he is becoming more of a loner than he used to be . He used to love being carried around by me, and my son. Loved to get his belly rubbed and now since the cat is 5 .
The cat will growl. Then if Brendan doesn't listen to his growls he will get bit and get upset by it then wondering why the cat is being mean to him when he's not hurting the cat .
Even when our cat has his claws out to do the scratching he will end up trying to scratch Brendan and he will only think that's a game until he ends up scratched but then it's been repeated over & over.
I no longer hold the cat because I know the cat doesn't want to be held and wants to be left alone but how do you get a child who is almost 6 to understand that the cat who used to loved to be held no longer wants to be held and wants to be left alone because he's getting old .
When cats get this way is it a sign they are more closer to their death stage ? Because our cat was a rescued cat from a rescue who had very sick issues that the rescue helped fixed him up .
The cat will growl. Then if Brendan doesn't listen to his growls he will get bit and get upset by it then wondering why the cat is being mean to him when he's not hurting the cat .
Even when our cat has his claws out to do the scratching he will end up trying to scratch Brendan and he will only think that's a game until he ends up scratched but then it's been repeated over & over.
I no longer hold the cat because I know the cat doesn't want to be held and wants to be left alone but how do you get a child who is almost 6 to understand that the cat who used to loved to be held no longer wants to be held and wants to be left alone because he's getting old .
When cats get this way is it a sign they are more closer to their death stage ? Because our cat was a rescued cat from a rescue who had very sick issues that the rescue helped fixed him up .
