1. your child's age:
Just turned 8, was orginally diagnosed with PDD at 4 years old, at six years old his diagnosis was changed to ADHD with mild SPD.
2 if you use any medication and if so, what meds do you use;
We tried Medadate 10mg with good initial results, but a slow and steady increase in anxiety over several months. Then he grew and we had to increase his dosage and noticed a big increase in anxiety and he started to bite his toe nails and finger nails until they bled. After he had to take antibiotics for a life threatening infection and that combined with the ADHD medications, gave him severe anxiety and major phobias in a matter of 24 hours. He no longer takes ADHD medication, all his symptoms went away after stopping the medications. We've also tried cognitive behavorial therapy, diet changes (he's on a milk free, dye free, wheat limited diet), counseling, social skills group, martial arts, fish oil and other supplements, and a chiropractor.
3. if your child has an IEP or 504 plan
No, but we home school. He didn't have on in kindergarten, but I wish he had.
4. how your child does in school,
He does great, but we home school. Last year, he did fine academically, but struggled with his sensory issues and he was badly bullied, so it's hard to tell what caused his issues.
5. great ADHD resources
CHAD and my sister with a kid with ADHD