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I lost a MONTH!!!

post #1 of 8
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I've usually measured four weeks ahead from the second trimester onward. I have a very short torso and my babies don't nestle into my body but stick out like tight beachballs. So I measure 'ahead.'

Anyway, throughout my pg, I've been remarking to dp that this baby is doing such-and-such a month earlier than the others did. Of course, I didn't take my own cues and have been steadily wondering what's going on with the baby seeming so mature for my dates.

At what I thought was 32 weeks, I measured 41. I had not measured for a while, but had done so the month earlier and I measured 6 weeks ahead which did have me wondering but I thought that it could have been just the baby's position that time. I do my own prenatals and it wasn't a matter of holding the tape differently or anything like that. But when I measured over a few days' span and blindly of course, I still came up with 41cm.

Then when baby dropped two days ago (with a clunk), my measurement went down to 37cm and this is the pattern that my pg with ds3 took at the end- 4 weeks before birth-, though he was a 46 weeker.

Anyway, I looked up my calendar and found that I had not done a pg test the month before I thought I had become pg because I had a two-day bleed (incidentally that stopped very suddenly), so I thought there was no need, though I did think it was rather strange since I usually have five or six days of bleeding. I waited five weeks from then to test (because I missed my period that time for sure) and it was positive. But now I think I was pg the whole month before so that I am 36 weeks now, not 32.

AAAAAH!!! We were already cutting it very close with renovations before the baby is born, and now we have a rush on. And I am not terribly good at rushing just about now.

Anyway, the baby has dropped and I'm 3cm dilated. Not 32 weeks at all, besides that this baby is way too big to even consider him/her 32 weeks. I have been suspicious for several weeks because I can easily feel the length of the baby's spine, and now the crown to rump measurement fits a 36 week marker (and I've been noticing a rather large disparity between the average c-to-r measurements and my baby for several weeks).

My belly skin is very thin, so I can grab feet and before baby dropped and was turning around still, I had to look up the size of the avg. head and again, my baby's head was four weeks-worth bigger.

So, I'm further than I'd anticipated and have to do twice the amount of work I expected to be doing in the time I likely have left.

Just venting, and being amazed at the same time. 'Hope nobody minds.
post #2 of 8
Wowsa!! Congrats! I think! I know most of us would LOVE to skip a month (or several!) ahead, but I also know that by the end of my pgcy, we'll be knee-deep in moving, and I could NOT stand to lose time at that point.

I hope you can relax, enjoy these last few weeks, AND get everything done. Ask friends for help! Take whatever help you can. You'll get through it!
post #3 of 8
Wow.

Losing a month.

Yea, a bit of a rush. Especially with the renovating. Hmmm, maybe nesting will kick in big time and everything will be ahead of schedule?

Ami
post #4 of 8
Oh my goodness, I would love to discover that I was a month further along. But there's no chance of that because I am so on top of my cycles that I know the precise day we conceived.

I've always envied women who discover they are three months pregnant. Getting a positive HPT before one's period is even due makes for a very lengthy pregnancy.

Best of luck to you!
post #5 of 8
That happened to me with ds1, but I found out about 2 of the weeks in my first trimester and then we figured out the other 2 weeks after he was born. I'd be freaked out at the end!
post #6 of 8
Congratulations! With my first baby, I totally would have loved to jump a month ahead. But with this one, time seems to be flying by. This might be our last and I really want to enjoy and remember every second of being pregnant.
post #7 of 8
Wow, I'm surprised they didn't do an u/s earlier to give you a better sense of timing. Enjoy the last *little* bit of pregnancy and congrats in advance!
post #8 of 8
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I was walking up and down stairs to install a wall and window with dp yesterday and I could feel the baby moving further and further down, and today at a store, I felt like that last bit of pg when it feels like the baby is just going to drop out.

Dp told me that he woke up last night because he could hear my breathing change from contractions while I slept. I am feeling a bit crampy and prodromal-y (I reserve the right to make up words to suit myself during pg ). DEFINITELY not 32 weeks. Ugh. I feel like such a dufus. I only told dp and one other person because it's not fun to explain the whole thing when most people are not super happy about my self-care; I don't want to give anyone ammunition against my radical pg and birth choices (sad I know, but I don't need the stress right now, obviously).

I am generally so intuned with my body, and this time, with the exception of the first month that I missed, I have been too, but for some reason my conclusions were really off because I hadn't considered that the reason everything seemed a month ahead is because everything was a month ahead! Looks like a duck, must be a moose, apparently. Maybe because I'm pg???

With all of my other pgs, I would have loved to lose a month, but this is our last, I am healthy, and we have a lot to do yet.

I am hoping, too, that nesting will take care of a good deal of the workload.

I'm not sure why I was ever convinced by that 2-day bleed.

Anyway, thanks for being supportive mamas, and not flaming me for my four weeks-wrong prenatal conclusions. Thankfully I figured this out before the birth when I'd be a bit freaked out with it seeming too early according to weeks. I've been saying to dp since second trimester that this baby is going to come earlier than the others; and of course s/he likely would have, with a month missing!

Today I stocked up on cloths for wipes and dp and I chose some hardly used sleepers and onsies from the thrift store; its my second choice after organic (which would likely arrive too late at this point! We'd have to ship some in.) because they have been washed several times and aired out so that now after I soak them in my Dr. Bronner's, boric acid and soda mixture, rinse and hang in the sun and fresh air to dry, I should be satisfied that they are reasonably free of chemicals. Still maybe not, but it's the best I can do right now.

Now to make our bed baby-ready... and install another wall, built-ins and front door...
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