I will be testing Mother's Day (14 dpo) if I don't cave and test sooner. If my temp takes a dive Saturday or Sunday I plan not to test but wait for AF.

Seriously, if my temp goes higher tomorrow, I might just have to run out and get a test...but I'm trying to hold off even buying one until Saturday.
Even if I cave and test on Saturday, I plan to tell mine and DH's immediate family Sunday. They all know about our struggle and complications TTC so we will tell family, and only family (and MDCers)!