I do not think that either are trying to resolve and issue or bestow information, but that doesn't mean they are around. People often think there must be some message that our loved ones have for us after they pass, but so often the only message is; live life fully, live in love and joy and continue on no matter what without them. Our loved ones don't wish us to suffer from the loss of them or to no longer experience joy because we are only mourning them. That is the most persistant message they pass on.
I will tell you that I am seeing one woman that does come around you at times. She is showing me her clothing as a distinction of who she might be. I feel like she liked "louder" clothes. Like big prints of flowers or polka dots. And bright colors as well. In fact this speaks to her personality quite a bit. She was outgoing and cheerful and friendly. She had a big heart and sometimes came on a little too strong, but it was really only ever out of love.
hopefully you can identify with who this person is. And the message here, is in the fact that she is showing herself to me, to confirm for you that she is around.
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