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post #1 of 10
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Argh, we're having some FUN times lately, let me tell you. Cecilia's 5 1/2 weeks now.

PROBLEM NUMBER 1

Lately, like in the last couple of days, she's gotten way fussier. It's almost always just in the evening (though this morning was a bit rough). However, it doesn't seem like the traditional "witching hour" because it's really only when trying to nurse. Her latch all of a sudden sucks too. But, I'm not sure if it could be reflux, because it only happens in the evening, not all the time. She seems to be having more gas pain at that time. The only thing I've changed in my diet is I've been having more chocolate lately, so I'm stopping that just in case. Otherwise, I'm treating it like colic and doing the 5 S's a la "The Happiest Baby on the Block" (well, 4, because she won't take a paci and I haven't quite figured out how to nurse and swing her back and forth).

PROBLEM NUMBER 2

As some of you know, I had a breast reduction years ago and have a low supply now. I'd estimate that I produce around 25-50% of her needed breast milk, though it's really hard to estimate that. So far, her supplementation has been from donated breast milk. Yesterday, a prospective donor emailed me and offered me a freezer full of milk. The only thing that concerns me is that she is on Zoloft. My Googling tells me that it's the most commonly prescribed anti-depressant for nursing moms and that short term studies show no ill effects on the baby. But there are no long term studies, and my husband is really reluctant to introduce the drug to Cecilia via her milk. So what would you do-- take the breast milk or turn to formula for supplementing? I really hoped I wouldn't have to use formula, but having a low supply means I've had to accept that it might be necessary.
post #2 of 10
my Dr Jack Newman book - the king of breastfeeding info IMO says

' Studies on the babies show that their blood levels are usually too low to be measured' and Zoloft is ' the preferrred antidepressant of this type in terms of the amount passed onto the baby'

I would take it if it were me I think.

As for the breastfeeding issue I have no advice but wanted to say if you get a chance you might want to try the breastfeeding support group on Thursdays at TMC. I went today and aside from my toddler being a demon it was really nice, the LC was the one I saw at the hospital and she was lovely. She weighs the babies and addresses any concerns. The moms there were really nice and had a vast selection of 'issues'. It was nice to feel 'normal' and be able to whop my boobies out and not feel too weird
post #3 of 10
I would almost always take breastmilk over formula. Even with a trace of Zoloft in there, it's got to be 10000000 times better than crap in a can.

Good luck with your evening fussies - I don't really have much advice for you on that one.
post #4 of 10
I'd take the milk over the formula. As Bubba'smommey mentioned it is one of the safest antidepressants for nursing moms. If I have another bad bout of PPD I'd consider Zoloft. I also have numerous friends who have breastfeed on Zoloft with no ill effects on their children (who are all older now by the way).

I've noticed that all of my babies got a bit fussier at around six weeks of age. It was usually okay in a couple of weeks. I always wondered if it was some kind of big developmental leap. Even now I notice that my older kids act disgruntled right before some big milestone.
post #5 of 10
i gotta wonder i the BM that you've gotten donated has alot of different age variety? i know that BM is made specifically for the age of baby. preemies get different milk than a term than a 6 mo old etc. maybe the milk she's getting is a bit beyond her ability to digest it easily? this obviously changes with the change of donor so did you change donor milk (or is that everyday that you have milk from a different person?)
post #6 of 10
Developmental leap: "On another level we have the whole feeding thing, which is quite a bit to get coordinated. First they have to get down the sucking part, then they all seem to go through that nasty "does my baby have colic or is it a GI problem?" phase at 6 weeks, then they have the growth spurts (at 3, 6, and 12 weeks and again at 6 months)."

Source: Ask Moxie, "What are sleep regressions anyway?" http://moxie.blogs.com/askmoxie/2006...t_are_sle.html
post #7 of 10
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Developmental leap: "On another level we have the whole feeding thing, which is quite a bit to get coordinated. First they have to get down the sucking part, then they all seem to go through that nasty "does my baby have colic or is it a GI problem?" phase at 6 weeks, then they have the growth spurts (at 3, 6, and 12 weeks and again at 6 months)."

Source: Ask Moxie, "What are sleep regressions anyway?" http://moxie.blogs.com/askmoxie/2006...t_are_sle.html
That's interesting and cool I have noticed this throughout all of my kids' lives so far. There always seem to be this kind of yucky adjustment period before they grow or do something big (sit up, crawl, walk, read, ride a bike, etc).
post #8 of 10
Yup, there's actually a book about it called "The Wonder Weeks." Learning what sleep regressions are makes parenting a baby make SO much more sense!
post #9 of 10
I would use the milk. I was on zoloft most of,dd2's first year. No ill effects here.
post #10 of 10
#1: Could it be she is getting overtired and by evening is just finding it harder to settle than before? Could just be a growth spurt as well. All babies are different, when you read that babies have growth spurts and such and such weeks/months - those are just rough averages. Growth spurts can also last a few days or a few weeks! lol

#2: I would take the breastmilk.
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