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:( I'm out... depressing post warning - Final update post 41

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So, I wasn't feeling the baby move starting two weeks ago, and at my midwife appointment on Friday she could not find the heartbeat. To make a long story short, I went to the emergency room today because I didn't want to wait another week (literally) to get in for the ultrasound that she could refer me to. So, the maternity people couldn't find a heartbeat with the doppler, and did an ultrasound, and there was no heartbeat. They said the baby stopped developing 2 weeks ago.

So, now I'm sitting in the hospital, getting an induction. This is the crappiest thing ever. There is no prize at the end. I'm incredibly bored, and I really just want to go home. There is no excitement. Just waiting...for a corpse.

Suck.
post #2 of 53
Sorry to hear that. I experienced something similar when I was 17 and it is very unpleasant. Lots of Love & Hugs to you.
post #3 of 53
I'm so sorry for your loss It's not fair is it
post #4 of 53
So sorry
post #5 of 53
Wow, I am not in your DDC, but I know some of your story. I am so very very sorry!
post #6 of 53
I'm sorry
post #7 of 53
DDCC
I'm so sorry. Hugs
post #8 of 53
Oh I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope that you are home soon.
post #9 of 53
oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this news.
post #10 of 53
I'm very sorry.
post #11 of 53
I am so sorry
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post #13 of 53
I'm so very sorry.
post #14 of 53
I'm sorry, mama.
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post #16 of 53
s mama! I'm crying for you. I just went through this one week ago today. Please pm if you need to talk. I'm soo soo sorry.
Take care of yourself...give yourself time to grieve. I have a regret. I wish I would have held him more and taken more time alone with him. I don't know what the hospital allows you to do, but if you can, do what you feel you need to do. I'm not sure how far along you are....I delivered at 18w5d but his gestation was only around 15ish weeks. He was a perfect tiny little person. I wish I would have spent more time with him.
Take care mama. You are in my thoughts and prayers...please pm me if you need to talk. s
post #17 of 53
I am soo very sorry.

Thank you for sharing AmBam. That is important information.
post #18 of 53
I'm so sorry! I'll be keeping you in my prayers.
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post #20 of 53
I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
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