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post #21 of 26
My 3.5y old does gymnastics, creative dance, and then this summer will swim. Her sister at this age wasn't doing anything but now DD2 sees big sister doing activities and wants to do them as well. They are non-team sports obviously. DD1 did a little soccer session when she was 4.5, and a baseball one as well (they are for one month), she was more interested in picking flowers, which was totally cool with me, just that we can do that at home without having to get in the car.
post #22 of 26
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Originally Posted by pigpokey View Post
Yeah, well, things have gotten entirely out of hand and there is some merit to the position that we should consider starting younger because the crowd has started younger. I suspect you do do privates in later childhood and catch up though.
Catch up to what? Is there going to be a test?
post #23 of 26
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Catch up to what? Is there going to be a test?
I'm going to try to answer that seriously.

Caught up to one's age cohort in a way that one can meaningfully participate in the local youth league of one's choice. When there is a test they are generally called try-outs.
post #24 of 26
dd did a few weeks of low-key, instructional soccer and t ball last year in kindy (age 5).

This year she's been in a soccer league with weekly games but it's not really her thing. She likes the social parts (cheering with her friends) but gets anxious about playing. I doubt she'll play again next year. She liked t ball better so maybe she'll give that another whirl.

In the meantime, she's become a solid swimmer and an absolutely incredible skier.
post #25 of 26
The next town over from me has a fantastic soccer program, and it includes an under-four age group. DD started around 2.5, and DS at 18 months, simply because I couldn't keep him off the field when his big sister was playing. They play in fall and spring for a few weeks, just like the bigger kids.

The under-four team is really excellent. Imagine 45 kids from 1 to 4 on the field, kicking soccer balls to their parents, playing red light green light with the coach, and generally having a chaoticly awesome introduction to soccer.

Every kid has his or her own ball to play with, and there is no actual game, but they are still learning introductory skills and getting practice dribbling the balls around. The coach is the most patient person I've ever met, I think. At the start of each practice he crouches down and the kids all gather around him and shout out little under-four factoids about their lives and their week, and he listens and comments on what they say before he starts the actual soccer portion of the day.

DS is just 4 and still with the little guys; DD is 5.5 and has moved up to the next level where they do play some little games. She loves that, too.

If this were a structured and competitive league, I wouldn't be a fan of it. The way it's set up, though, it's really comfortable for us. There is no focus on competition, and the soccer skills come naturally with the games the kids play. The coach applies no pressure at all, and I believe his own daughter refused to even try to kick the ball for most of last season. It didn't matter much to anyone; kids play if they want to and sit out if they'd rather.
post #26 of 26
Thread Starter 
thanks for all the replies, I seriously wasn't sure, i wasn't in any sports or dance growing up, that wasn't an option given the $ situation. But some of my relatives started t-ball/dance around 3-4 so i figured that was the age to begin. Dh is from out of country where sports are not emphasized either. Honestly, I am not wanting ds to be in sports for the wrong reasons, ie: to push him into some sport i like, (i don't really like sports much as i am not a competitive person) I want ds in them for the gross motor skills, socialization, learning to work as a team and for excerise and fun. We are considering homeschooling and i would like ds to do activities with children near his age for socializing etc. and i thought this would be the right age to start trying out sports to see which one interests him (if any).
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