When?

[SamuraiMom]

Hello again Jamie. The next big question swimming around my head, almost every waking moment of every day is when will I be ready to divorce him? Should I wait until the whole business thing is taken care of or can I just get the ball rolling tomorrow? Thanks again, Jamie!

[IntuitiveJamie]

Thanks for your patience, I was attending a birth and it was my birthday this week.

I do not feel like waiting is the way to go. I think that you will be much better off getting the ball rolling. In fact, I feel that the longer you wait, the worse things will be. I'm not entirely sure what that means, but that is what I keep hearing. It feels like waiting is not doing you any good and will not do you any good.
I wish you much peace on this journey. Stay strong!

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