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post #21 of 26
I'm thinking the same as the last few posters- have an OT eval done for a sensory disorder, and maybe a work up for a digestive problem like celiac or something along those lines. It sounds like this girl is avoiding food for a reason- and as a parent of a child with sensory integration disorder you are not going to be able to just twist her arm or bribe. My daughter has a friend with oral defensive SPD and it needs therapy and intervention. They can teach your SIL tools and techniques to desensitize her before she gets sick, and help her parents realize they're not crazy!
post #22 of 26
take her to a naturopath or chinese doctor

kids with low zinc can often exhibit low/no appetite. My bff's son was so extreme in his pickiness it was scary, once they found out he had low zinc and started supplementing he picked up sooo many new foods!

hth
post #23 of 26
What an interesting thread! i have no experience with this in my kids. But I do have an adult friend who does the same thing and it's been this way all her life. She's stick thin, and she just doesn't *like* food! She gets hungry and will nibble on really plain, fairly unflavorful foods like crackers. As she's gone through life (she's 31 now) she finds more and more foods that she can tolerate. Also, as she's gotten older, she's found she's having more and more gut troubles, among other things that always seem to have something to do with food. when she's having pms and on her cycle, she really doesn't feel like eating ANYTHING - which of course isn't a solution. she smokes pot to give her some kind of appetite during pms and her cycle. She is so sensitive to food that she can smell things cooking from very far away and completely looses her appetite.

I'll be interested to see if the child in question gets any resolution through alternative treatments.
post #24 of 26
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Originally Posted by NiteNicole View Post
I have read three or four books on kids and food in the past few weeks and they all boil down to that:

Parents decide what and when.
Kids decide if and how much.
I couldn't agree more with this.

I also agree that a sensory issue may be the case. If it's not and she's just good ol' fashioned picky, I'd stop the catering business and supply healthy, high-fat meals and snacks for her to graze on, without bribes or making it an issue if she takes or leaves it. Also, if she's drinking milk or juice throughout the day, it can really interfere with appetite.
post #25 of 26
Sensory issues are a possibility, so is an underlying GI issue. Food refusal is very common with eosinophilic esophagitis and can be the only symptom, along with failure to thrive when it gets extreme. I've got one kid with each and it's no picnic. I'm afraid the idea that kids will eat when they get hungry is bullshit. Not eating solid food can lead to constipation which leads to a reduction in serotonin created in the intestinal tract which further reduces appetite. That train can go straight to failure to thrive land and it's not a fun trip. My son didn't eat a bite of solid food for five weeks last winter and it was anorexic snowball that just got worse and worse. No solid food increased his constipation, which further killed his appetite despite being on a large dose of Miralax daily.

The idea that some kids "just don't like eating" but are perfectly healthy is possible but unlikely. There are tons of physical issues that can cause a child to not eat, including anemia, food sensitivities, food allergies, autoimmune disease and sensory processing disorder. Refusal to eat solid food is a huge red flag for potentially serious problems -- oral motor problems, diseases like EE, sensory problems, etc.

I recommend a book called Food Chaining It discusses medical issues and sensory issues related to poor eating and how to increase your child's dietary repertoire.
post #26 of 26
My son has an eating issue. He's been in and out of Feeding Therapy (none of it really worked but I'm hoping to find yet another feeding therapist.)

My son does have sensory issues and is on the autism spectrum.
Some pediatric Speech Therapists are trained in Feeding Therapy. Have your SIL call her health insurance to see if there are any in her area that take her insurance.
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